SETH AND MELANIE STUDLEY | The Anatomy of Marriage

Order of Man

Ryan Michler

Business, Health, Leadership, Relationships, Man, Society & Culture, Intellect, Style, Lifestyle, Money, Selfdevelopment, Wealth, Fitness, Selfhelp, Nutrition

4.8 • 9K Ratings

🗓️ 8 August 2023

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

Some of the most common questions we receive (and this has been consistent over the past 8 years) is how to make a marriage work. And, with the breakdown of my own marriage over the past year, it’s clear to me more than ever how hard the union between two people can be. But that doesn’t mean it’s impossible and it doesn’t mean it isn’t worth pursuing.

The benefits of marriage are plenty including the shared responsibilities, the fulfillment found in service to another, and the growth that must take place in order for a marriage to work. Today, I’m joined by Seth and Melanie Studley who focus on helping couples work through their marital challenges and create a thriving relationship. We talk getting back to the basics, the growth vs. fixed mindset, why men must cast vision, common mistakes in marriage, how to recognize the tests of women, and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Marriage therapy vs. marriage coaching
Women unconsciously (and consciously) test men
Actually getting on a better path instead of just manipulating
Taking extreme ownership in your marriage
Erecting appropriate boundaries
Creating a shared vision for your marriage
You have to be willing to fight
Making changes for the right reasons
You need to clearly communicate what you want
We need affirmation

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0:00.0	Some of the most common questions we receive and this has been consistent over the past eight years is
0:05.3	How to make a marriage work and with the breakdown of my own marriage over the past year
0:10.1	It's clear to me more than ever how hard the union between two people can be
0:14.5	But that doesn't mean it's impossible and it doesn't mean it isn't worth pursuing
0:18.8	The benefits of marriage are plenty including shared responsibilities the fulfillment found in service to another and the growth that has to take place in order for a marriage to work
0:28.6	Today, I'm joined by Seth and Melanie studley who focus on helping couples work through their marital challenges and create a thriving
0:37.3	Relationship today we talk about getting back to the basics of the growth versus fixed mindset in a marriage
0:43.6	Why men must learn to cast vision common mistakes and marriage how to recognize the tests of women
0:49.6	Which often happen and so much more your a man of action you live life to the fullest embrace your fears and
0:56.5	Boatly charge your own path when life knocks you down you get back up one more time every time
1:02.5	You are not easily deterred or defeated rugged
1:06.0	Zillied strong. This is your life. This is who you are
1:10.2	This is who you will become at the end of the day and after all is said and done you can call yourself a man
1:17.4	Men what is going on today? My name is Ryan Mickler
1:19.8	I'm the host and the founder of the order man podcast of movement really looking forward to getting this conversation to you today
1:25.2	Because this is on a topic that so many men are struggling with with the with the breakdown of my own marriage over the past year
1:34.0	That has been a challenge, but I've had so many I mean countless at this point so many conversations and messages of emails from men who are in
1:43.0	Struggling relationship struggling marriages
1:45.8	Separations divorces and this is a this is a growing trend not only is it growing in that marriages are
1:53.2	Falling apart and crumbling, but it's also a growing trend that more and more young people aren't even getting married and
1:59.5	I still think it's a worthy pursuit and I know many men do as well
2:02.7	And so if you are going to engage in marriage or you're currently married then making sure that you have all the tools at your disposal
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