Set Boundaries To AVOID BETRAYAL & Manipulation (STOP PEOPLE PLEASING For Good!) | Najwa Zebian

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 15 February 2023

⏱️ 101 minutes

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When you’ve been hurt by someone you trusted, it feels impossible that you’ll ever let go of the pain and shame around what happened and be able to stand in your power again. The truth is that though you feel like a victim, and you feel taken advantage of, or like you’re completely broken, it is possible to move past this situation and open yourself to love and safety without fear. Najwa Zebian has joined us on Women of Impact multiple times and each time she’s been able to put words to the pain that has blindsided many women and offer a new perspective through which we can move out of survival mode and truly start healing. She’s the bestselling author of Welcome Home, Mind Platter, Sparks of Phoenix and so much more. As a woman she’s experienced the difficulties of life, going against culture, and being open and vulnerable with the wrong people. In this episode, Najwa and Lisa are bringing you a fresh look at setting boundaries. It’s not about keeping people out or giving other people a set of rules to follow, it’s about your personal value and how you see your self-worth. Being a people pleasing woman may have landed you in painful situations, but you can make peace with that version of you and ask yourself the one question that will bring you to tears, healing, and freedom. Follow Najwa Zebian: Website: https://najwazebian.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/najwazebian Twitter: https://twitter.cokkfdlk dfmlkfd m/najwazebian Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/najwazebian/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/najwazebian1 Podcast: https://najwazebian.com/stories-of-soul-podcast Download Now: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here: https://bit.ly/3dWyB2d FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop: https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	My girl, Najua Zabayan, is back. And in case you don't know who she is, guys, man,
0:05.6	she is the hero of her own damn story that is committed to war, open vulnerability, that speaks
0:12.5	to the hearts of so many women, where she helps heal and shows what self-love really is,
0:19.8	and the importance of empowerment. Now, she's an author,
0:24.1	a speaker, an activist who's inspiring millions and millions of women around the world to live
0:29.3	authentically and unapologetically themselves. Now, we don't stay there. I understand those are just
0:35.9	buzz words. We go freaking deep of what it
0:39.3	actually means to keep showing up authentic and what it actually means to not apologize
0:45.8	even when you think and feel like you want to because we've been so trained to be nice,
0:51.1	to be people pleases. So how do we become unapologetically ourselves? How do we
0:57.1	break away from being that nice girl for people that don't even deserve you to be nice to them?
1:02.9	And the question that will bring you to tears in today's episode will break you out of the imaginary
1:08.5	cage, guys, that you feel is holding you back right now.
1:13.1	So, let's grab the keys to unlock that cage. Let's grab the pliers, whatever we
1:18.9	freaking need to break free. We're doing it today. Let's go.
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