And what oftentimes happens in marriage, two people are married and they both think that the other is going to serve them.

And they find out that they're both selfish.

And it leads to a lot of unmet expectations and hurts and frustrations.

So like they come to Jesus and they ask him this interesting question, you know, how do we be the greatest?

And rather than rebuking them,

he redirects them and he says, serve. And then he says that he didn't come to be served,

that would be selfish. He came to serve and to give his whole life for us. Well, howdy y'all?

Pastor Mark here, welcoming you back to the Real Marriage Podcast. If you don't know,

we got a brand new book, my wife, Grace and I. It's called

Real Romance, and it's on sex in The Song of Songs. And hey, if you're not having sex,

we want to help. If you're having sex, we want you to have more and better sex. And if you're doing

really great, congratulations, you're officially a unicorn. The book is now available,

and you can find all the details at real romancebook.com. And on today's episode, we'll be

delving into the Song of Songs, the Real Romance Marriage Book, and try to help you spice up your

love life, my friend. And there is a phrase that couples tend to use, and that is that the honeymoon's over.

That means now we are back to work.

When you're on your honeymoon, it's great.

You've got nothing to worry about.

You got no one to think about.

It's just the two of you absolutely focused on one another what would you

like to do what would make you happy today and then the honeymoon's over well this week in the

song of solomon study the honeymoon's over and they have their first fight so the duties

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