You're listening to Be You Unapologetically Podcast with Kyra Carlin.

Learn to love you as you are now and quit waiting on someone else to tell you who you are.

Be you unapologetically.

Good morning and welcome to Be you unapologetically. Good morning and welcome to Be You Unapologetic Podcast.

I am Kyra Carlin and today's episode is going to be brought to you literally from the bottom

of my heart and I mean the most love, but I'm going to tell you right now,

whoever you have that you're thinking about or worrying about with what it is that you are

doing, you need to give them the big old middle finger. I think one of the biggest problems that

we have as women, as any kind of entrepreneur or a hustler or a dreamer is the fear of

other people's opinion and the fear of success. So I'm going to talk about how some of my biggest

outtakes or some of my biggest obstacles that I've had to face and some of the things I've had

to do or say or cut people out of my life whenever they're just

being a douche. And that's something that I had to remember is that, you know, not everybody is going to be

in the cheering side. Not everybody is going to be on, you know, has their game face on for you,

hoping and wishing for the best. Some of them are going to be silently watching, hoping and wishing

you fail. And I will say it may even be some of the closest people to you. It really just sucks.

It sucks whenever you have somebody who is not cheering for you, but I have to remind you, like,

when you set this goal, when you decided you were going to do something, when you quit your job, when you started a brista, you know, office or coffee shop, listen to me, I can't

even think, whenever you decided you were going to set a goal, I'm hoping that when you set

that goal, you weren't thinking, well, I wonder what Susie Joe thinks of this. But the sad thing is, you may have been doing that.

I know for me, that was one of my biggest hardships of starting my fitness journey online.

And I had one of my girls reach out to me and just ask me, like, how do I create a different account so that I can filter who sees this and I'm like sister

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