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What's up? I'm Delaney Fisher and welcome to your self-helpless snack where I share a little

taste of the self-helpless podcast with a mini episode. If you want to dive deeper into this topic,

you can find the full episode linked in this episode's description.

What is it about the cycle of addiction in that way where you see the hardship of codependency

and addiction growing up, but then you wind up in those

situations as you get older as an adult. You almost think like, you know what it looks like.

You'll stay away from it. You've seen how difficult it is. Why do you think that cycle repeats itself?

I'd love to hear your perspective on that. This is an amazing question. So everybody's cycle is a little bit different,

and it's based on whatever attachment issue they acquired as a result of the relationship they grew up in.

Okay. I know that sounds complex, but it's really not for me. I grew up in an alcoholic

environment where I got my sanity and a little love from being a fixer and a controller, which is one of

the different personality patterns that I've identified. And so I'm running around. I'm trying to

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