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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

See Him as a Person, Not a Prize

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 11 May 2016

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

Nobody – woman or man – appreciates being objectified. Whether you are being judged on the size of your breasts or your bank account, it is offensive because you have so much more to offer the world than something so superficial. But what if you are the person doing the objectifying? This behavior is also dangerous for you. It pretty much guarantees that you’ll never meet the kind of men you’d actually like to attract. I explain why, and give you one simple trick that will help you connect with the real person you want most.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello everybody, this is Matthew Hussie with Love Life. I have an incredible show for you today,

0:06.0

but I want to make sure you listen right to the end because I'm going to give you a special gift,

0:11.0

a full proof way to become the most intriguing woman in any man's life and you're not going to want to miss it.

0:19.0

I'm seeing a lot in the media right now about the objectification of women in particular.

0:29.0

The feminist groups coming out and saying that the culture that men have towards women of seeing them as objects

0:37.0

and dehumanizing them is disgusting and leads to the bad treatment of women.

0:45.0

Now, of course, I think this happens to some extent in both directions, but I can absolutely see the point of it being strongly a problem for women.

0:55.0

Of course, men face the same thing in certain cases, women objectifying them for different reasons.

1:01.0

I always think that it's interesting. Women can claim more than guys, I think it's fair to say,

1:06.0

the objectification in terms of their bodies or how pretty they are.

1:11.0

I think men have a fair case in claiming objectification based on their status, their power, their money, things that they've achieved.

1:19.0

Very often, those are the things that they're objectified for.

1:23.0

So, let's take a step back for a moment because I want to introduce a very human element to this.

1:29.0

I honestly think that one of the reasons we get scared socially is because we objectify people.

1:36.0

The guy he walks into a bar and he sees a woman as a nine.

1:41.0

She's a nine or she's a nine.

1:44.0

And immediately he's objectified her.

1:46.0

And he's done more than that. He's made her the prize.

1:49.0

He's made her an object of a challenge of desire that she is to be one.

1:57.0

Now, of course, as soon as you make someone the prize like that, you put them on a certain pedestal that makes you start to treat them differently for better or worse.

2:04.0

Sometimes it turns certain guys into into servile creeps who want to do anything to impress her or please her.

2:14.0

For other guys, it turns them into nasty people.

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