Secrets and Therapist Abuse
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 15 December 2021
⏱️ 22 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob, I have a bunch of emails here. Let's read them and answer. What do you say? |
| 0:03.6 | I can read. All right. I'll read them for you. So you don't have to read. Listen or step from |
| 0:09.7 | Manila, the Philippines. So is is it okay to have secrets from your relationships? Is it healthy |
| 0:18.0 | or is it dishonest? So end of email. Pretty open-ended question. Yeah. But I think it's |
| 0:25.0 | something we haven't talked about in a while at least. Yeah. Secrets and relationships like |
| 0:29.7 | secrets like, I don't know, how many people you've had sex with or whether or not you fantasize |
| 0:36.8 | about someone or you bought this thing online and it's not really within your budget but you can |
| 0:46.1 | pull back on this other area to make something work or you harbor resentments towards your |
| 0:53.5 | partner that you just have resolved you're just never going to mention or I don't know. You |
| 1:02.5 | don't like his mom very much but you never mention it because you're just worried about |
| 1:09.6 | something bad happening. Are these secrets okay? Yeah, sure. Well, you know, it's sort of like if my |
| 1:16.6 | like there's some secrets that if my partner knew they'd be hurt and there's some secrets that my |
| 1:21.9 | if my partner knew they'd be injured. The injuries I think that's probably those are those are |
| 1:29.7 | one should be mindful about doing things that are injurious or potentially injurious to a partner. |
| 1:34.6 | But you know, you're not going to like everything about your partner. You're not going to see |
| 1:38.1 | it eye-eye about everything. I don't see any reason. I think honesty and full disclosure are not |
| 1:44.1 | the same thing. What do you mean? Well, I can be basically honest with Colleen, right? But that |
| 1:50.8 | doesn't mean I have to say everything that comes into my head or I like talking about every well |
| 2:04.9 | for for me talking about every annoyance. Oh my god, if I would never talk about anything else |
| 2:09.2 | right? Because I'm irritable. So meaning that you get annoyed a lot with people or Colleen. Yeah. |
| 2:17.5 | And if you voiced every instance or even a summary at the end of the day, that would be bad. |
| 2:24.8 | It would. It would be all this headache and frustration and for what? Right. Nothing. Right. |
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