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Secret Speaking Powers | Do People WANT to Listen to You? (Part 3)

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Real Estate Training & Coaching School

Business News, News, Careers, Business

4.4705 Ratings

🗓️ 22 September 2021

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

Keeping it real with upgrading your conversations! Harris Rules for better presentation and communication:  (Practical and tactical!)   Eliminate the use of I, me, my or mine from your speech unless you are apologizing.  Then the use of I is part of owning the situation. Listen more than you speak.  Record some of your conversations when you’re doing lead follow up or calling past clients.  What percent of the time are you speaking versus the other person?  Make it all about the other person, every time. Ask good questions AND listen to the answers.  Use prequalifying scripts. “Listen with curiosity. Speak with honesty. Act with integrity. The greatest problem with communication is we don’t listen to understand. We listen to reply. When we listen with curiosity, we don’t listen with the intent to reply. We listen for what’s behind the words.” -Roy T. Bennett Schedule A Free Coaching Call Listen on iTunes Listen on Spotify Listen on Stitcher

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0:00.0

Welcome to Real Estate Coaching Radio starring award-winning real estate coaches and number one international bestselling authors, Tim and Julie Harris.

0:10.2

This is the number one daily radio show for realtors looking for a no BS authentic real-time coaching experience.

0:18.2

What's really working in today's market, how to generate more leads,

0:21.8

make more money, and have more time for what you love in your life. And now your host, Tim and

0:28.3

Julie Harris. Three, two, one, and we are back in September of the 22nd. And we are finishing

0:36.5

off, well, finishing off the last of these points and rolling

0:39.1

into the actual Harris Rules for better presentation and communication skills. And again, we're

0:44.1

trying to keep, as we do on every podcast, things very, very practical and tactical. We don't have

0:48.7

too many high flute in conversations. Most of our conversations are very, you know, designed to put

0:53.6

you guys in a position

0:54.4

where you can be of service to other people and make money as quick as possible.

0:58.1

And hopefully that is what all of you are looking for.

1:00.6

So this has been an introduction to better presentation and communication skills.

1:05.2

And we're going to be picking up on point number, really it's subpoint number seven, right?

1:09.9

I mean, in essence.

1:10.7

Yes, these were the seven sins of speaking, essentially, to eradicate those so that we then

1:15.6

can get on to some rules for improving your speaking.

1:18.7

And number seven is good old fashioned lying.

1:21.7

Well, that sounds a little severe, doesn't it?

1:23.5

But lying to cover your tracks, lying to obfuscate the truth, lying to manipulate,

1:27.7

or to dodge accountability, simply have a policy not to be a liar. Julian Treasurer, who I referred

1:33.7

to as TED Talks earlier, suggests that we put a positive light on all this to get right on,

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