Hello and welcome to the Endless Honeymoon Podcast. It's another secret dump coming at your face.

Coming in your face. Natasha, working blue tonight I see. Wow, that was exciting.

Hey, I have a question submitted by one of our listeners. Is ogling slash objectifying other

people's bodies disrespectful when you're in a relationship? Well, Natasha, what do you think?

Ogling and objectifying in general are probably not great. No, I'm saying like a woman walks by me.

I think this is what this person's asking. A woman walks by me. She got a thang on her, right?

She got dumped like a truck truck truck. That's like what? What? What? And I'm like, damn, as she walks by,

to you. I'm like, oh, like damn. Check out the, I might say like check out the pooper on her, you know?

Is that disrespectful to you? It depends on our relationship around it. If I think it's funny and

we have that kind of sense of humor, then no. Yeah, I'm saying inherently, should a couple be down

with looking at the beautiful things that walk by them when it comes to other people? I think it's

totally individual. I couldn't be with a woman that wouldn't let me go like, damn, look,

thick alert. You know? Right, but maybe you might be with someone who has issues with people.

With thick people. I don't know. Or people calling her out at some point or I don't know. So,

I mean, I feel like maybe she was awgled and it was like painful. So the fact that you would do it

would make her uncomfortable, even though you guys are in love and, you know, have so much in

common in all these other ways. We please go with her now. No, I just get. I get that you're doing

like a moral relativism thing. I'm just saying, like, is it an inherently, this is, I think, the question,

is it an inherently disrespectful act to stare at another woman or man in a, you know, like, wow,

that person's hot kind of way? I don't. When you're with your partner.

Yeah, I mean, yeah, I think I think having an inside joke about like your body type that you like

is one thing. But like, if I was like, hanging out with you at a wedding and you were just like

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