Hey, welcome back.

Hope everybody had a wonderful holiday. Yes. If it wasn't that great, I hope you just survived. You know? You got through it. That works. Sometimes that's all you can do. We got a brand new second date for you today. It's coming up in this episode. But first, a comment. What do you got? Yeah, Xavier said, the funniest thing I saw today was that Spotify recommended second date updates under the relationship advice section. Oh, they did? You officially made it. That's awesome. I hope that Spotify realizes this isn't good advice. Yeah. Unadvice. Right? Clearly they didn't listen to the same thing. Yeah. Exactly. They're like, everyone's listening to this. There's got to be good advice. All right. Millions of people. Here we go. Judge for yourself. Is this advice or not? Your second date. Brand new episode starts right now. Second date update. Brooke, let me ask you something. I've seen a quick, yay, nay, or hey neighbor. Uh-oh. Underrated quality in the dating world today self-awareness

oh hey neighbor oh I don't know where the neighbor if you're talking to I wasn't quite sure why

to respond that way you got excited it would be a yes but it's more fun to say that yeah we didn't

need the sultry part of it, though. Like, hey, neighbor. Is your wife out right now? She pulled her shirt down over her shoulder. Are you self-aware? It's a little much. But, yeah, self-awareness. It just, it feels like kind of a rare thing nowadays. Oh, man, it doesn't exist on social media, that's for sure. Or on the show.

But one of our listeners, Leon, has it because he messaged us saying he believes he knows

why he's being blown off because he is an unabashed love bomber.

Oh, yeah.

That's just how he rolls.

And maybe it's not for everybody, but it's his preferred style so leon welcome to the show

man hey thanks for having me okay are you proud of being a love bomber yeah definitely i mean i just think

it's my natural style i like going over the top for girls and okay if we're being honest with each other, I'm not getting a ton of matches out there.

So the ones that I am getting, I really want to go over the top and really try to connect with them.

All right.

I'm excited to hear what he did.

Yeah.

We'll get to the love bomb fest in just a second. But tell us first about this lady that you met. What's her name? Where did you meet her? Her name is Angela. And I just met her at the grocery store the other day. And she was so cute. She had like Auburn hair and green eyes. She was really beautiful. Interesting. So I just worked up the courage to ask her out. A grocery store meetup is a love bomber's dream, right? Yeah. What do you mean? Well, it's just like every rom-com ever. And love bombers love to live out the rom-com. How does this extra flower end up in my card? I think that's for you. Exactly. Oh, you're talking about a bag of flour? No. That is kind of romantic. It was actually a bag of avocados. Wow. Now you're balling. Okay. You're going to go bad in 24 hours. I know. Just drop like a stack of hundreds in front of her, why don't you? Well, do you not any bag of avocados you had to squish before you found the perfect one?

That's true. Yeah, I'm sure. Already you've put a lot of effort in more than most men would. This is romantic. Let's get to the actual day. What did you do when you met up? Well, we just got coffee. And it wasn't that long either. We only had like 20 minutes. You know, she's high class. She has a really good job. I don't even understand her job. She's clearly very smart. That's how cool it is. I have so many friends like that where they tell me 800 times what they do. And I'm like, I have no idea. Me too, bro. Zero follow-up questions. Yeah, I don't. Cool. All right, that's nice.

Your... what they do and I'm like, I've no idea. Me too, bro. Zero follow-up questions on that. Yeah, I don't. Cool. All right, that's nice. You're dating a smart lady. Yeah, in that time, I could just tell that we were viving. I was making her laugh. I don't know. She's like sort of touching my hand a little bit. That's good. Wow, if she touched your hand, that's really good.

Touching it or swatting it away from it? Because you're basically like strangers at this point. You've never even talked. That is true. Which is why I think 20 minutes is okay. It's almost like a pre-date that you went on. Yeah, that's true. It's like a screener. Yeah. Well, yeah, give us the big, like, highlight moment from the coffee date.

I don't know.

We were talking about how both of our... screeners. Yeah. Well, yeah, give us the big, like, highlight moment from the coffee date.

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