Second Cup: Don't wait to apologize
Before Breakfast
iHeartPodcasts
4.5 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 6 May 2023
⏱️ 7 minutes
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Making amends fast can save a relationship
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| 0:00.0 | Deep in the mountains of Greece, the country's most-wanted man has been on the run for over a decade. |
| 0:07.0 | He's a bank robber, a kid napper, but to many Greeks, he's a hero. |
| 0:13.7 | His name is Vasili Spaliokostas, and we're on the trail of the man behind the men, a modern-day Robin Hood |
| 0:20.3 | who steals from the rich and gives to the poor. |
| 0:22.9 | A Miles Gray, listen to the Good Thief on the iHeartRadio app Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. |
| 0:30.0 | Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. |
| 0:38.0 | Good morning. This is Laura. |
| 0:43.0 | Welcome to the Before Breakfast Podcast. |
| 0:46.0 | Today's tip is to not wait to apologize. |
| 0:51.0 | If you may have caused someone inconvenience or hurt them in some way, |
| 0:57.0 | apologizing right away can make the experience less painful for everyone. |
| 1:03.0 | So I recently said something to someone that one minute later I realized could be badly misinterpreted. |
| 1:11.0 | My first thought was that maybe I should just pretend it didn't happen. |
| 1:16.0 | Maybe the other person didn't hear me. |
| 1:19.0 | Or you always hope that if there's a nice way to interpret something and a bad way to interpret something, |
| 1:26.0 | people will give you the benefit of the doubt. |
| 1:30.0 | However, I decided we were both going to feel very awkward if the bad interpretation prevailed. |
| 1:38.0 | So I apologized and noted that I meant the other thing, and the person laughed, and everything felt a lot more clear. |
| 1:47.0 | Upon reflection, I realized that my first instinct had been wrong and apologizing was the right approach. |
| 1:54.0 | Sometimes when we fear we might have hurt or irritated someone, we figure we should wait and see whether they're really upset |
| 2:03.0 | before acknowledging what we've done and how they might feel. |
| 2:06.0 | And I guess this does make sense in a way. Why rock the boat? |
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