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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Season 8 Episode 19: Quest For Love with Ryan Van Duzer

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 26 June 2019

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Ryan Van Duzer tells us about how he fell head over heels in love, only for it to end almost as quickly as it started. We discuss getting through the deepest of heartbreak, how to really show up for relationships, and why love is still the most magical thing despite it all. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcript

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0:00.0

The dateable podcast features real stories from real people of how they make modern

0:04.8

dating work or not. Each episode will not only offer you a new perspective on

0:09.7

dating but will also change the way you date.

0:13.0

I'm your host, U.A. former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

0:17.0

You'll also hear commentary from my producer Julie Craftchick and other surprise co-host. Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of Datable, a show all about modern dating.

0:30.4

I'm so excited to have a friend as a guest on this episode with someone I've known for a really long time.

0:36.7

A long, long time, just like you said, we met in Beijing, China during the Olympics.

0:41.7

That was in 2008. It is 2019, do the math.

0:45.0

11 here.

0:46.0

I can't believe I've known you for that long.

0:49.0

I know.

0:50.0

Brian on the line, he is 40 years old he lives in

0:53.2

What don't say that?

0:54.4

Sorry, no but be you but you still look 25 so it doesn't

1:00.5

That's correct

1:01.6

He lives in Boulder and he's lived in Boulder all his life and is currently in a monogamous

1:06.4

relationship.

1:07.4

Now, just a little background.

1:08.9

When I first met Dueser, so we met, I call him Dueser, his name is Ryan.

1:12.1

When I first met Ryan, and I remember my first impression of him

1:15.6

was I thought he was like this party guy, really outgoing.

1:20.4

Like, I nicknamed him the mayor of Boulder.

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