The dateable podcast features real stories from real people of how they make modern

dating work or not. Each episode will not only offer you a new perspective on

dating but will also change the way you date.

I'm your host, U.A. former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

You'll also hear commentary from my producer Julie Kraftchik and other surprise co-host.

Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of Datable, a show all about modern dating.

I want to talk about timing because we always ask this question, is it the right person or is it the right time?

So we have a very special guest here with us. Her name is Jenna Birch. She wrote a book called The Love Gap.

Do you want to say hi before we introduce who you are?

I'm so thrilled to be here. This is going to be really fun.

But before I give a little introduction about you, I just want to say, like, I've talked about this before.

When I'm walking down the street. I don't see or hear anything. I'm just like in my own little world. I'm just like very much of a daydreamer and Julie experienced this the other day.

Yes, I did.

When I was walking down the street, I was listening to my music.

I was like on my way to a bar class.

And I get a text from her.

And she's like, you literally just passed me on the street and didn't and I was

screaming your name is that what happened Julie yes and I just gave up so what I'm

getting at with this is that one don't be offended if you call my name on the

street and I don't respond to you.

But two is I often think about this, right? If I was looking for a Julie-like person on the street

when I'm walking, I might have seen her, but because I wasn't in that mindset of looking even

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