My name's Jake Big fan. Hey Jake. Here's the predicament I'm in. I was married in September to my wife over so married. She's in medical sales, started that last year, doing very, very well. We recently relocated from the other Pennsylvania to Northern Pennsylvania for her job. She makes good money and I am not motivated to find work up here because it sucks and salaries are shit.

I'm just looking for some advice on getting my ass into gear and finding a new job. Keep the good shit coming back.

Okay, wow. You need me to fucking tell you to get a job. You got a fucking family.

Yeah, buddy, I got fucking used for it. You got to fucking, you got to make some fucking scratch. You can't be using the fucking movers and excuse.

You moved there because of your wife to be complaining about the move and the salaries. I didn't realize there was such salary. I know. It was just barrage.

Yeah, that is so funny. He's treating going from Southern Pennsylvania to Northern Pennsylvania. Like he fucking crossed these, like he's living in Australia now.

Do they use the dollar? I'm 20 minutes outside of Philadelphia to the north instead of 40 minutes to itself.

But think my wife makes all the Northern Pennsylvania money. Yeah, yeah, I know what to do.

So look, but you can't be mad at where you are because being mad at where you are, where you are is hating on your wife.

Okay, you got yourself a boss bitch. It sounds like she's making the fucking money is your ego bruised as a man because your wife is your daddy.

Maybe, maybe that's where it is, but you got to let that go if that's even a part, even a small part of what you believe.

And look, I think it's great. I would love to be a stay at home dad. I would love if my wife was more successful than me.

I would have no issue with that. But unless you guys have kids and you can offer something to the partnership that way,

just look at it as wanting to do your part. You know, she's fucking crushing it. You don't want to fucking succeed a little bit.

Feel a little more useful. I had a little, you know, make a couple of, maybe you guys can save more or buy a, you know, buy a house or something.

If you also have a job and honestly, if we're just going to keep it, you know, from a very biological perspective here,

it's like, your wife keeps crushing it and you keep moping around. You know what I'm saying? Those pants,

those pants, who's might be getting pulled up by somebody else around the office, that's all I'm saying.

She might have a little office romance. You watch out for her office husband.

And I remember when my parents, they met when they were very young and they had to, like, relocate from Western Louisiana,

it's Southeast Louisiana. Crazy culture. Just a culture. Like just from like, they had a different, like, area code all the sudden.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, different. It tested that. It was crazy. Kind of like how your great, great crayons came into Ellis Island.

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