Schema Therapy with Bob (Chapter 2) (2019 Rerun)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 23 October 2025
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October 16, 2019
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| 0:00.0 | Psychology in Seattle. |
| 0:07.0 | Hey, deserving listeners. |
| 0:08.1 | Today we have Bob back on the podcast |
| 0:10.9 | to talk about his schemas. |
| 0:13.0 | So this is gonna be part two |
| 0:14.7 | in which I interview Bob about his schemas |
| 0:19.1 | and his emotional needs and where he how he grew up and the |
| 0:25.6 | schemas he developed and the maladaptive coping styles that he engages in that all we all |
| 0:32.6 | engage in in relation to our schemas and what he's done in therapy and his own personal work to overcome that, |
| 0:40.1 | to not fall into certain holes, certain pitfalls, certain situations that are self-destructive |
| 0:49.9 | and deny Bob the ability to get his needs met, which we all need. |
| 1:00.5 | And for those of you who maybe don't know this, but I've been doing a series of episodes on schema therapy. |
| 1:07.9 | A lot of people have been asking me to do a deep dive on schema therapy. |
| 1:12.6 | I did that. |
| 1:13.6 | I didn't really know the model that well, but after doing the deep dive, I discovered that I really liked it and for a lot of reasons. |
| 1:20.6 | One of which is that it solidifies, so to speak, the way I've been thinking about people for the last, you know, 15 years |
| 1:31.1 | into a understandable model that has a language and a system that is kind of provides a formula, I guess, for solidifying the thoughts about why people are the way they are |
| 1:48.4 | and why we all have certain repetitive foibles and repetitive sensitivities. |
| 1:53.5 | Sort of an accurate description of how people are with the basis and attachment. |
| 1:59.7 | Right. |
| 2:00.3 | Yeah. |
| 2:00.8 | And instead of it just being general attachment theory, it actually tries to describe these |
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