Hi everybody. Welcome to the women's dating and confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today we're going to talk about one little mindset shift that can really help you feel more abundant and in control of your

dating results instead of feeling like you are out of control or it's all up to luck or the

opportunities are really scarce in dating. Before we get into that, I want to share with you my free

guide called copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away

or acting flaky. This is an eight page guide that gives you copy and paste texts to send to the

person depending on the situation that you're in. It also gives you an explanation of what's

going on in that situation and what you need to know and how

to respond in the best possible way. So today I had the second group call from the new group that

started last week and we had some really great questions come up today about online dating and

scarcity and rejecting people and so many great topics.

But one thing that really stood out to me was a question about how to handle it when you're

dating somebody and you really like them.

And they're actually very amazing and you're really loving your time with them and how to not

feel scarce when that happens because that person starts to feel very special and you start to feel

very lucky and you start to feel like maybe you don't even want to date other people and there can be

this feeling of um um, like it,

it kind of goes from positive to negative really quickly because at first you're excited that

you met somebody that's so awesome. And then immediately following that is anxiety around, well,

when was the last time that I met somebody this awesome? And what if I don't meet somebody this awesome again?

And then we go into scarcity.

So one trick that it's so effective.

It's so helpful in your mindset for relieving some of that scarcity and that fear is we need to shift our thinking from luck to deliberate creation.

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