SC 70 - Saying Yes To Relationship Pain

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 21 September 2016

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Running away from relationship pain and problems often just creates more problems. Here I remind you why facing pain is useful. Check it out. Now.

SHOWNOTES

The simple point of relationship pain. [10:00]
The smarter strategy when you’re triggered by your partner. [10:45]
How Jayson’s back pain woke him up to something deeper. [13:15]
Erectile dysfunction and Viagra as an example of what NOT to do with relationship pain. [16:00]
The big signs that you’re hitting the snooze button on your relationship pain. [18:30]
Jayson gives your action step. [23:00]

Transcript

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0:00.0	If you don't care about long-term partnership, because that's not your jam, then this probably isn't
0:08.4	the podcast for you. So, Hey what's up guys, Jason Gattis here. Welcome back to The Smart Couple
0:23.8	podcast. Hey what's up guys Jason Gattis here welcome back to the smart couple
0:34.4	podcast episode 70 if you're new welcome if you're returning to the
0:41.6	podcast welcome back fun to have you all here as we dive into long-term
0:49.2	relationship territory. That's really what this podcast is about is helping you have a great long-term relationship by actually
0:58.2	learning how to do it. Because like me you didn't get a class in school and there was no real relationship education for you.
1:07.0	So you just flailed around like I did and followed your nose and heart and got burned and got shit on and
1:15.3	had some victories and some fun connections and some sexy times and some intensity. You've gotten hurt you've gotten really high maybe in a relationship
1:29.3	and you've been really low probably so you could continue to be on that roller coaster if you like or you can
1:37.8	learn how to do this thing called Partnership over many years. And it's certainly not easy and I don't promote that, oh, just do this one thing and your relationship is going to be great.
2:02.4	Once in a while I draw people in with a couple of easy hacks that definitely help in the short term and if you want to go the distance in the long term
2:05.8	you gotta basically transform yourself from a neophyte into some kind of Jedi, really.
2:17.0	And you can do that.
2:19.6	If you don't care about long-term partnership, because that's not your jam then this probably isn't
2:26.4	the podcast for you. This is for people who want to stay with one person for many many
2:32.4	years. We're talking decades here. Not for life in any of these
2:37.4	fantastical dumb commitments. It's just that you want to be satisfied for a very long time with one person.
2:46.8	You want to go deep with one person.
2:48.6	You don't want to die alone.
2:50.3	You don't want to be miserable jumping from a relationship to relationship in your 40s or 50s.
2:55.3	That's not your thing.
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