SC 68 - Your Relationship Q's - Anger, Jealousy, Depression, Honesty, Premature Ejaculation & More

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 7 September 2016

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

It’s really normal to experience jealousy, depression, anger, intense attraction and so much more when you find yourself in a good relationship. Our relationships trigger the deepest of human emotions and experiences. In this episode, I answer some fun, very painful, and challenging questions from you the listener. Notice how all of these questions may bring up stuff from your past or present relationship and see if you can find the nugget in each question that you can learn something from.

SHOWNOTES

What’s really happening when someone says “you make me feel X”. [6:45]
Is it a mistake to stay with my husband who is a functioning alcoholic? [9:30]
How to deal with premature ejaculation after you’re married? [12:15]
One factor that will guarantee your relationship is doomed. [15:30]
How to get your boyfriend to talk more when all he wants is occasional texting? [16:30]
Can a guy be emotionally mature if he doesn’t like to talk about his feelings five months into a relationship? [18:15]
When a partner struggles with depression, how do deal with a big transition when moving to a new country? [21:45]
A partner goes MIA after his mother dies, does this mean the relationship over? [25:45]
Is there a limit to being too open and honest with your partner? [30:30]
Jealousy when your boyfriend has a lot of interaction with other women on Facebook? [34:00]
The best way to eliminate anger? [37:00]
Best approach for a couple that is going to be long-distance for two years? [40:30]
Personality disorders and loving yourself? [42:45]
How to regain trust when a partner refuses to open up? [47:15]
Jayson’s action step for the listener. [50:00]

Transcript

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0:00.0	If you're with someone who says no thank you, I will not look at my part, you're screwed. I'm going to Hey, welcome back to the Smart Couple Podcast, Episode 68.
0:35.0	This podcast is for people who want to learn and grow through long-term relationship.
0:42.4	It's for you if you long term relationship and haven't quite reached that and want to learn
0:49.6	about how to do it maybe you've had some failures, or it's for you because you are in a long-term
0:55.5	relationship and you want it to be better, you want to go deeper, or perhaps you're in a marriage that is incredibly frustrating and tiring and painful and you want to
1:10.3	before you get a divorce you want to see if you can turn a corner with these
1:16.7	free tools that I'm offering you. Whatever the case may be I salute you and I appreciate you because to learn about
1:27.6	intimacy is a very brave act in this life where we claim we're all connected and we're so
1:39.5	interconnected and intertwined and we're more connected than we've ever been.
1:44.2	We all have more friends than we ever had next to the internet.
1:47.4	Yet we're maybe more miserable than we've ever been.
1:52.1	There's more people on medication. than we've ever been
1:53.0	more people on medication than there's ever been
1:57.0	40 million Americans on antidepressants as an example.
2:02.0	We are feeling more miserable antidepressants as is an example.
2:02.7	We are feeling more miserable and alone perhaps
2:06.7	than we ever have, as is evidenced by the skyrocketing
2:12.0	suicide rates, pharmaceutical industry, numbers, and the general malaise that's kind of like
2:21.0	a wet blanket over people's lives.
2:26.0	And if you look closely to me, you see your own suffering and you see the suffering around you. A lot of people are hurting and disconnected.
2:37.0	So a lot of people will talk about connection and friendship and deep down inside when you get them behind a closed door like I do
2:46.0	you learn that they feel isolated alone and disconnected
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