I don't recommend marriage unless you do the homework and you do the work. So, Howdy, welcome back to the Smart Couple Podcast. How are you friends? What's going on?

How's the relationship report today?

All right, this is a short one, Q&A style.

I'm getting a lot of great questions for the podcast. I want them to keep coming in

because there are so many nuances to your specific situation.

So email us at info at jason-Gaddis.com.

You can ask your questions in the Smart Couple Facebook group. You can also record it and ask Jason question on my

site, Jason Gattis.com. This podcast of course is for people who want great relationships and want to be fulfilled.

Relationship is such an important part of our lives and having a bad one makes life harder. Having a good one makes life harder.

Having a good one makes life easier and more enjoyable.

So to get the enjoyable goodies of a great relationship

and all that you two can do together, it's going to take some work.

So that's why I'm helping you here, because I want you to roll up your sleeves and deal.

Here's a question from an anonymous woman.

Hi, Jason, you refer to making a partner wrong.

I'm curious how you tell the truth between making a partner wrong

in order to avoid intimacy and making a partner wrong and that there's a significant fundamental difference.

Okay, the question goes on, but I'm interrupting it just to speak to this part of the question. I talk a lot about making

my partner wrong. I for years made all the women I dated wrong. In other words, I

made them the reason I was unsatisfied in the relationship.

It was their fault, they weren't X, Y, or Z enough. You know, whatever, fill in the blank.

That's just generally speaking, that's kind of making your partner wrong.

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