SC 48 - Men And Their Relationship Issues
The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.7 • 999 Ratings
🗓️ 26 April 2016
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
In this short episode, I cover why men are so locked up relationally and 3 steps to help a guy transform this so that, you both can have a great relationship.
SHOWNOTES
- What is at the core of men’s challenges in modern day. [3:20]
- Some of the big pain points for men in relationships. [4:45]
- What is the “boy code”? [5:15]
- How Jayson struggled in relationships. [6:30]
- Do men really know how to listen? [8:15]
- Why shouldn’t believe when your man says he’s just “in a bad mood.” [12:00]
- The missing step after getting good feedback. [15:05]
- Jayson’s challenge to the men. [17:40]
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | If you will see your partner as a big fat pain in the ass. the Hi and welcome back to the smart couple. |
| 0:34.6 | What's going on? |
| 0:37.2 | How's the relationship today? |
| 0:39.6 | What's the temperature? |
| 0:41.4 | Hot and sweaty, steamy, cold and bleak, damp, you know, what's the scoop? |
| 0:50.6 | I think it's important that we check in every day with our relationship if we're in one and we say hmm how is it today what's the temperature and if you're not in one it's important to check in with yourself every day, right? |
| 1:04.0 | How depressed am I today? How miserable am I? How high am I? How low am I? |
| 1:08.7 | How happy, sad. Where am I? |
| 1:11.8 | In my courses, I always teach what I call the nest meditation, |
| 1:15.6 | where we really create a nest to hold our experience. |
| 1:21.2 | People that are able to sit with their experience can simply tolerate more |
| 1:25.1 | discomfort in relationship which is huge because if you're in the long-term |
| 1:30.2 | game of relationship there's going to be a lot of discomfort. |
| 1:39.7 | Yeah. I want to thank Henry Giebler for busting out that intro, outro music. |
| 1:51.0 | He is a great kid, a great guy, and if you want to check out his music you can on SoundCloud, and I'll include a link to that and the show notes. As always, stay tuned to the very end of each episode where there's usually |
| 1:57.0 | a little bit of homework or an action step you can take right now to get better relationships. Now this podcast episode I'm going to zero in on men. I'm a |
| 2:10.4 | man I like men I'm interested in masculinity and I've run men's groups off and on for years |
| 2:21.2 | I've done men's trainings I've helped out with a number of men's projects. |
| 2:25.0 | I've run boys groups for my own son and his friends. |
| 2:29.0 | I've ran rights of passage trips in the wilderness for college age men. |
| 2:36.0 | I was a leadership consultant for fraternity men. |
| 2:39.0 | I've counseled hundreds of male adolescent boys and I'm fascinated with the modern |
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