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The Jayson Gaddis Podcast

SC 36 - Is Polyamory For Me?

The Jayson Gaddis Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7999 Ratings

🗓️ 18 February 2016

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

In this one, we answer your question, is polyamory for me? In this eye-opening episode, I interview six people who practice some form of polyamory and open relationships. They share their raw and realistic perspectives on both the potential benefits and challenges of choosing polyamorous relationships. They also help explain the numerous terms that can be confusing for a polyamory beginner. And be sure to listen to the very end where I reveal a big aha on what monogamists can learn from polyamorists!

SHOWNOTES

  • What is the difference between poly, open and swinging? [10:25]
  • Why would anyone want to become polyamorous? [15:25]
  • What is the same fear that shows up in both polyamorous and monogamous relationships? [25:45]
  • What is a “second base party? [26:20]
  • Does a primary partner always have to feel like they’re in first place? [28:20]
  • How do you navigate polyamory and parenting? [29:16]
  • What is “veto power” in a polyamorous relationship? [30:35]
  • The pitfalls to avoid and keys to remember when starting out in polyamory? [32:34]
  • The difference between a “primary” and a secondary”? [38:20]
  • What is the personal growth opportunity in both polyamory and monogamy? [47:30]
  • Why compersion is necessary in polyamory [53:40]
  • What happens when you slow things down [58:40]
  • How a Q-TIP can help you [60:20]
  • Jayson’s big aha about polyamory [1:05:20]

Transcript

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0:00.0

What you want to do? Polyamory, you mean like having sex with lots of people?

0:25.0

Hey everybody, what's up?

0:28.0

Jason Gattis here, back with the Smart Couple Podcast.

0:31.0

The place for Growth development oriented people who want to have excellent.

0:37.0

Superb relationships, long term, after kids, after financial hardship during meltdowns during fights

0:51.6

navigating affairs navigating Navigating affairs, am I going to get a divorce, navigating, are we going to make it?

0:59.1

Are we going to stay together?

1:00.4

What's the deal?

1:01.6

That is the stuff we talk about here on the Smart Couple

1:04.5

podcast. I'm grateful to have you here as a listener spending your valuable time

1:09.4

listening to this. I believe the content is excellent here and you're making it even

1:16.1

better with your questions, your comments, cheering us on, giving us feedback, so

1:22.0

keep it coming.

1:23.6

All right, today is very interesting

1:26.5

because I'm a guy who practices monogamy

1:30.2

and this podcast is mostly about monogamy.

1:33.2

Long-Term relationship, like marriage,

1:35.8

and the tools and tricks and tips on how to succeed

1:39.5

over time with one person.

1:41.6

However, today we're going to take a little turn because little did I know that

1:46.8

monogamy has a lot to learn from polyamory. And we're not talking about polygamy here. I grew up in Utah, so I know a little bit about polygamy.

1:57.0

Actually, I've got polygamy in my family line. It's really interesting.

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