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The Jayson Gaddis Podcast

SC 33 - Sharing Impact - Relationship Tool with Joshua Levin

The Jayson Gaddis Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7999 Ratings

🗓️ 28 January 2016

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

This week, I bring onto the podcast a long-time friend and relationship wizard Joshua Levin, to help me outline a potent relationship tool: sharing impact.  Like many relationship tools, sharing impact is a simple, yet difficult tool to use in relationship. WTF is sharing impact and how can it help you dramatically decrease drama in your relationship? Find out by listening in. This is the first episode in a series on “relationship tools.” This is a new format I’m trying out, so make sure to leave your comments and feedback below. Does this serve you? Do you want more episodes like this? Let me know!

SHOWNOTES:

  • Why does Joshua care about relationships? [5:40]
  • Why do we need a tool like “sharing impact” in a long-term partnership? [9:00]
  • What is “sharing impact”? [11:10]
  • By contrast, what do many people do instead of sharing impact? [15:15]
  • Josh shares a personal example of sharing impact [21:05]
  • Jayson and Joshua trade impact back and forth [25:00]
  • What happens after we share impact? [28:00]
  • Josh encourages us to start with ______ [30:00]
  • The difference between expression and communication [35:00]

Transcript

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0:00.0

What you want to do? Hey, hey, smart couplers.

0:14.0

What's up? Couplers that are smart because coupling is smart.

0:31.0

Don't you think that you can do more together than you can alone? I know that's

0:37.5

my experience. And man, when you have a partner who has your back on the journey, it's really, it makes the ride,

0:51.1

not only more doable, but more enjoyable.

0:55.0

But here's the thing.

0:56.8

The smart couple knows that to get to that place consistently over time, you're kind of in this relational

1:05.3

a kido with your spouse or partner you got to work it out to become a power

1:11.6

couple or a dream team you got to really work at it to continue to fine tune how you dance together and how you play together.

1:20.0

Right? And if you don't do that, you're going to suffer and struggle.

1:25.0

So this podcast is about helping you dance, the good dance together.

1:29.9

All right, in this episode today, I've got a very long-time friend who is just a real relational

1:39.2

samurai when it comes to being present with you and me and he's a guy I've known gosh for over a decade now and he's someone who I really respect and admire how

1:59.4

he shows up relationally with people he's the guy in the room that if there's a little ripple

2:05.9

in terms of connection going on or what someone said or someone dissed someone or anything else, he's tracking those details and then speaking up about it and saying,

2:17.0

whoa, whoa, something just happened there, how was that for you?

2:20.0

And Josh is just a really skilled facilitator not only individually but with groups.

2:26.0

And I'm bringing him on as a bit of an experiment.

2:29.0

I'm going to do some episodes with specialists, people who are really good at a skill,

2:37.0

let's say. Josh in particular is good at a lot of skills relationally, but one of my favorites

2:42.3

that him and I can geek out on is sharing impact,

2:45.7

and he's going to talk about that today.

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