What you want to do? Hey what's up everybody Jason Gatis here back with another episode of the smart couple

podcast the podcast that's for people who are committed to getting a great relationship over time,

not just for six months, folks, for years,

a great relationship for years. that takes a lot of presence and paying attention and a lot of scrapiness and

does take some work, it takes some play, it takes lifting some relational weights and doing some intimacy pushups.

And if you're not up for that, this podcast isn't for you.

Okay, if you want the easy way out, go somewhere else.

If you get that relationship can be tricky and a little dicey and a little challenging

and a little confronting,

then welcome home.

All right, in this episode, I take your questions.

I've got a lot of good ones here.

One of my favorites in this one is how to find a good marriage counselor.

Ugh. Yikes. So if you're in that question in your life like, oh honey, we got to go to marriage counselor but who do we go to where do we find them what the hell I think I've got a lot of good

info in there I think it's going to turn into a blog post so I'm open to your feedback.

Leave me a comment. There's other ones on resentments, dating, setting boundaries, giving people feedback, and more.

Disclaimer is, of course, I only have a few minutes with each question.

It can be ridiculous to think that I can

answer someone's years of pain in just a couple minutes but I'm just taking a

stab at it. It's fun for me. I think a few comments can shift your perspective and one insight can change the game for you.

So I am guessing these are helpful.

Check it out. Hi, Jason, I'm really hoping that you can get my question. I'm going to try to keep it under 90 seconds.

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