SC 22 - Cock Talk - 4 Men Getting Really Honest

The Jayson Gaddis Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7 • 999 Ratings

🗓️ 29 October 2015

⏱️ 84 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I’m joined by a panel of courageous men: Booster Blake, Jeffrey Platts, Adrial Dale, and Christopher Sunyata. These men have all done work on themselves, and so are able to get honest and talk openly about their sexuality, their victories and challenges with intimacy, with relationship, and with their bodies in the bedroom. I think you’ll appreciate the transparency of these men.

SHOWNOTES:

How has porn negatively or positively affected your sex life? [29:45]
If you played with other boys when you were young, did you ever have any doubts that you were gay because you enjoyed it? [27:05]
Did you ever have a sexual experience with a boy? [24:00]
When did you first learn to masturbate, and what was it like? [17:30]
The men briefly describe their relationships to their cock [13:00]
Christopher introduces himself [10:10]
Booster Blake introduces himself [8:45]
Jeffrey introduces himself [7:35]
Adrial introduces himself [6:50]
Beginning of interview [6:45]
Where do these men draw the line when it comes to fantasizing about other women? [37:30]
What’s a victory, or celebratory moment, you’ve had with your cock? [42:00]
What are your thoughts on working to transcend pornography? [48:00]
A listening woman asks: What is the best segue to bring up sexual topics when there is shame around the topic? [52:45]
What kind of shame have men experienced that have been put on their cocks or their sexuality by women? [58:30]
If the woman asks for something different in the bedroom, does a man take this personally and feel like he is not a good enough lover? [1:05:30]
Final comments [1:12:45]

Transcript

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0:00.0	What's up? Men and women. People, strange human beings, growth development, geeks.
0:16.0	Welcome back to the Smart Couple, podcast.
0:20.0	Today I have another episode of Cock Talk, and I'm excited to bring you this one because
0:25.8	it's really just a panel of men answering questions and getting very honest about
0:31.7	their cocks, their sexuality and intimate and able to talk openly about their sexuality and their insecurities and their victories in the
0:49.2	bedroom both with a partner and with themselves masturbating.
0:54.4	I think you'll appreciate the transparency that happens in this episode.
0:59.8	I talk fairly openly about my own insecurities and challenges over the years on my blog and here
1:07.5	on the podcast is a way because I think it just serves rather than perpetuating the myth that we can reach the summit in
1:17.4	our sexuality or relationship and everything's fine.
1:21.5	Smart people that are paying attention know that the journey never ends.
1:25.0	Is that a song? I think so.
1:28.0	And it's work. It's highs and lows. It's in and out. It's up and down. It's dark and light. It's pleasure and pain. It's the whole thing, right? So if you're smart, you know this and this podcast is about busting out of those fantasies over and over again because we can fool ourselves into thinking one more therapy session or one more little tweak and everything will be great.
1:52.0	A true fulfilling relationship, as I've said before, takes
1:56.6	work and effort and it includes the challenges along with the victories.
2:03.4	Fulfillment is holding both.
2:05.8	So for men, we are challenged in the bedroom
2:09.3	on a number of fronts.
2:11.8	And one of the things we're most challenged by, as you'll hear in this episode, is performance, that we have to do it right.
2:21.0	We have to do her right. We have to do her right. And if so, then everything will go well.
2:27.1	That puts a lot of pressure on us and we have various ways to work around that unconsciously as men and I see this all the time.
2:36.7	So we talk about porn, we talk about masturbation, we talk about about sexual victory, we talk about, we answer some tough questions from listeners about
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