SC 183 - Why it's Essential to Fight in Front of Your Kids
The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.7 • 999 Ratings
🗓️ 6 February 2018
⏱️ 17 minutes
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Summary
Fighting in front of the kids is a major taboo, but should it be? What if we started treating each conflict in the home as an opportunity for relationship homeschooling?
Jayson Gaddis has spent years teaching kids (including his own) about how to do conflict. News flash: Lectures aren't the answer. Leading by example is!
In this episode, you'll learn how to take your family's authenticity to a whole new level AND ensure the young adults in your life learn how to do conflict from someone who cares about doing it right...someone like you!
SHOWNOTES:
- DO fight in front of your kids [2:00]
- Why it's a mistake to lecture young people [4:00]
- Young people see, young people do [6:00]
- What are conflicts in front of kids like at the Gaddis house? [8:00]
- Shame as a tool [10:00]
- You're action step [15:00]
Check out the webpage for this episode at https://relationshipschool.net/podcast183
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| 0:00.0 | Young people, especially adolescents, do not respect grown-ups that don't know how to work their |
| 0:05.3 | shit out, because you're a walking contradiction. the Hey what's up and welcome back to another episode of the Relationship School's Smart Couple Podcast. |
| 0:34.6 | I'm your host Jason Gatis, and I'm here on a mission to help educate the planet about |
| 0:40.0 | love relationships. That's right, because you and most people didn't get that education. |
| 0:47.0 | By the way, have you picked up your copy of the Smart Couple quote book yet? |
| 0:50.0 | Check it, okay? |
| 0:52.0 | It's getting great reviews on Amazon. Sold a lot of these things and I'm |
| 0:55.4 | grateful for your support if you're buying one. That can be also a thank you gift. |
| 0:59.1 | If you listen to if you listen to 182 episodes for free, which is probably about 180 hours of content. |
| 1:09.3 | How about buying a book for 20 bucks? As saying thank you has helped me in my life |
| 1:14.4 | all right check it out it's on Amazon just type in a smart couple or Jason |
| 1:19.5 | Gatos and you'll find it. Nice. |
| 1:23.0 | So let's get into it guys. |
| 1:25.0 | Today I've got a really good episode with me, myself, and I. |
| 1:29.0 | Okay, this is the kind of shit I think about all day long when I'm with myself. |
| 1:34.0 | Ellen and I also talk about these things, of course. |
| 1:37.0 | We stay up late, chat, and we wake up early and drop into this kind of conversation. |
| 1:42.0 | So this is me and you in our living room talking |
| 1:45.8 | about this one, okay, over a tea or a glass of wine. So in this episode I |
| 1:50.8 | want to talk about this is really directed to parents, okay and I want to talk about, this is really directed to parents, okay, and I want to talk about fighting in front of your kids and why it's essential to argue, disagree, and fight in front of your children. |
| 2:03.0 | Okay, some of you were like, |
| 2:05.0 | oh, what, hey, hold on, yeah, I don't know about that. |
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