SC 153 - When One Of You Values The Relationship More Than The Other
The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.7 • 999 Ratings
🗓️ 28 August 2017
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Summary
QUESTION:
I understand that men generally will put career and providing at the top of their priority list, while relationships might hover near the bottom. Relationship is a top priority for me, so how do I get to the place where i’m ok with not being at the top of the list for my guy?
How do I not take it personally? Do I need to be looking for someone who’ll put our relationship at the top of their list and make me a priority - or is that a childhood fantasy?
- Vanessa from Santa Monica
SHOWNOTES
- Vanessa's question [1:00]
- Understanding what it takes for a fulfilling relationship [2:00]
- When two people in a relationship have different values [3:00]
- How you can express your hurt to your partner without getting 'blamey' [4:00]
- Should you learn to be okay with not being a priority to your partner? [5:00]
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to the Smart Couple Podcast and Show. You asked me anything episode. |
| 0:20.0 | So at the end you can ask me anything. |
| 0:22.5 | The beginning I've got a question that's been emailed in and you're always |
| 0:26.2 | welcome to email us questions as well. Okay. |
| 0:30.0 | Go to Relationszchool.net net the new website and in the contact form you can |
| 0:38.2 | leave us an email just type in the headline podcast question headline, podcast, question, okay? |
| 0:45.0 | And then we are going to assume that it's okay to read your question and your first name and where you're from. |
| 0:52.0 | All right? Vanessa's got a question here from Santa Monica about basically difference in values and priorities in life. |
| 1:03.7 | All right? |
| 1:04.9 | So she says, I understand that men generally will put career |
| 1:09.1 | and providing at the top of their priority list |
| 1:12.2 | if there was a hierarchy, |
| 1:13.7 | a pyramid here, while relationships might hover |
| 1:16.9 | near the bottom. |
| 1:20.6 | Of course, relationship is a top priority for me, so how do I get to the place where I'm okay with not being at the top of the list for my guy? |
| 1:30.0 | How do I not take it personally or feel hurt by that? |
| 1:34.0 | Or is there something I need to be looking for, |
| 1:37.0 | someone who will put our relationship at the top of their list |
| 1:40.0 | and make me a priority? |
| 1:42.0 | Or is that a childhood fantasy? list and make me a priority. |
| 1:42.6 | Or is that a childhood fantasy? |
| 1:45.5 | Okay, this is a great question, Vanessa. |
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