Savoring Your Lovemaking

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Chris Taylor

Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Christianity

4.7 • 885 Ratings

🗓️ 9 April 2026

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

What does sex that isn't mostly about orgasm look like? What does it mean to really savor your lovemaking? Slide your chair up to our (bistro) table this week and let's discuss!

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From the Bible

For your Maker is your husband—
the Lord Almighty is his name—
the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer;
he is called the God of all the earth.
Isaiah 54:5

I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion. Hosea 2:19

"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32

Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Psalm 127:3

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. John 10:10 (ESV)

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7

Resources

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Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives, where three marriage bloggers discuss the naked truth.
0:06.0	What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriages?
0:09.7	I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives.
0:12.6	I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice.
0:14.9	And I'm Jay Parker, of Hot, Holy, and Humorous.
0:17.8	Pull up a chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat.
0:22.3	Well, today our virtual kitchen table is bistro-sized.
0:26.0	I, J. Parker, am in one of the two chairs and Bonnie Burns is in the other.
0:29.9	But we feel good about being able to tackle today's topic with breadth and depth.
0:34.7	And what is today's topic?
0:36.0	Well, in recent years, we've talked more and more about how
0:38.5	sex should be about intimacy. Yes, it should feel good, but the purpose is not a personal
0:43.6	high of pleasure, but profound connection with your husband. So what does sex that isn't mostly
0:48.9	about orgasm look like? What does it mean to really savor your lovemaking? We're going to talk about that. Okay, Bonnie,
0:55.4	let's set the stage a bit. We are pro pleasure, but we don't believe sex should be solely
1:00.4	focused on that. So what is the purpose of sex in marriage? Well, I think there's probably several.
1:06.6	The one I would like to highlight is that sex in marriage can be a covenant renewal.
1:12.4	You know, sex is meant to be a physical expression of the covenant faithfulness between a
1:17.3	husband and wife. And, you know, a covenant is more than just a contract. A covenant is sacred
1:22.3	and long lasting. So sexual intimacy reminds a couple that they belong to each other in a sacred promise before God.
1:30.5	And two, I think it paints that picture of God's faithfulness to us.
1:34.5	So as husband and wife are faithful, especially in the marriage bed, that paints a picture.
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