Savage Lovecast Episode 992

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 4 November 2025

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

A woman's bisexual husband has been getting "gayer and gayer" to the point where he is only interested in her if she acts like a dude. Her friend is worried about her. How can this marriage work? Are there any straight leather daddies out there who aren't misogynistic creeps? This caller is NOT HAPPY. On the Magnum, it's a "What You Got" with psychology professor Dr. Justin Mogilski. His study on people who maintain friendships with their exes was misinterpreted and misused. He and Dan talk about why the myths persist, and about his new study looking at the ingredients that make open relationships work. And, a newly out femme lesbian loves her long, detailed, luscious nails. But for obvious reasons, she thinks she should probably trim a couple of them. Will people notice? Rrrrwwwworrrr! [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 20% off site wide. Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Blueland. Going eco has never been easier. Revolutionary, refillable cleaning essentials eliminating single-use plastic. Right now, get 15% off your first order by going to Blueland.com/Savage Subscribe to Magnum⁠ for the full interviews, chats with Dan, and more! Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to pegging and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.
0:05.1	If you're under 18, get out of here, young and...
0:08.0	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary,
0:12.4	or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:18.1	while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:26.6	I don't feel sorry for Morgan Housley, who has been disappointed by the D in D.C.
0:33.1	Maga singles are looking for love in Washington.
0:35.8	It's a challenge.
0:37.2	That was the headline on
0:38.1	Jesus Rodriguez's story last week in the Washington Post about women, MAGA women, who can't
0:43.8	find love in Donald Trump's Washington. He opens with Morgan's sad story. A 29-year-old woman
0:50.3	who moved to D.C. in April, Morgan expected to have her pick of hot men with six
0:55.8	packs and red hats who were in as big a hurry to get married and have kids as she seems to be.
1:02.2	We'll put a link to the story in the show notes.
1:04.7	Morgan came to D.C. to work for the American Principles Project.
1:08.4	The American Principles Project is a pro-sum families but anti-other
1:12.6	families hate group that wants to ban gay marriage and abortion, opposes trans rights and gay
1:18.2	rights and voting rights, and is maybe five minutes away from backing a repeal of the 19th Amendment.
1:24.5	Morgan thought she would, once she arrived in D.C. have her pick of men her own age
1:28.8	who loved the Lord as much as they loved the gym. Morgan, very specifically, wanted a fit guy,
1:35.7	quote unquote. That's what she told Rodriguez, a fit guy who could provide for her emotionally,
1:40.9	physically, and spiritually. Morgan thought she would be married and expecting her first child by now.
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