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Savage Lovecast

After Action Report #2

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 31 October 2025

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

On this week's After Action Report, a trans man made his way to his first furry party. He doesn't have a full suit yet, just paws, ears and a tail. For those in full fur suits, you might be wondering: How do they, you know...do it? You'll have to listen for this detail. Do YOU have a.. ahem...tail...to share of a new sexual experience? Write us at [email protected] with the subject line: After Action Report, and we might get back to you. Do you like this? Yeah you do. There's more of this sort of thing at the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's advice show. Listen up at Savage.Love or wherever you get your podcasts. Call the Lovecast: 206-302-2064 Send a prerecorded question to: [email protected]

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0:00.0

After Action Report, where I interview someone who's tried something new in bed and lived to tell the tale.

0:17.0

This week we have Argo, a trans man who went to his first furry party.

0:22.5

Hey, Argo, welcome to After Action Report.

0:24.7

Hello.

0:25.6

So what did you do?

0:27.4

So I just not too long ago went to my first furry sex party.

0:32.5

So originally I was thinking, oh, it's going to be like a sex positive sort of space. I was like kind of thinking, oh, there's going to be like a neutral zone. I had all these expectations. And then it would just kind of subverted what I was thinking it was going to be, which was both kind of scary and really exciting and kind of fun. So it wasn't what you expected it would be. No. Why did you want to do it?

0:54.6

Before we get to what happened and how it went, why did you want to do it?

0:57.1

What turned you on about going to a furry sex party?

1:00.0

So I'd been involved with some stuff on a message thread.

1:07.5

And then they said, hey, I'm throwing this thing.

1:10.2

And I was just like, oh, man, like, it would be really cool to meet some of these folks

1:13.5

that I've been flirting with online in person.

1:16.3

And were you, had you had group sex before?

1:18.6

Had you been to sex parties before or was just even a sex party in your experience?

1:22.3

I'd been to something like it where it was a more sex positive environment, but it wasn't

1:26.5

like, it wasn't necessarily

1:27.7

an expectation. It was more centered on kink and watching different scenes, not necessarily,

1:34.3

like sometimes sex, but not necessarily. I'm sure there are people out there

1:39.5

wondering if it's a furry sex party, if there are people there in fur suits, how do they

1:44.0

have sex?

1:45.5

There's zippers and openings in the suit that allow for things to happen with the costumes on.

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