Savage Lovecast Episode 990

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 21 October 2025

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

A woman just started a dating a man 12 years her junior. But he doesn't know her age, and has never asked her, even on her birthday. Should she tell him? A couple were approached by a man who initiated a relationship where he is their sex slave. But he is a very demanding slave, sending too many texts, and generally violating their boundaries. He pays them for their attentions. So who's the boss here? Dan welcomes Imani Askew-Shabazz from PlanCPills.org on the show to talk about abortion medication by mail. On the Magnum, Dan loves it when scientists affirm what he's been saying for years. In this "What You Got?" we welcome Dr. Amy Muise, Psychology and Research Chair in Relationships and Sexuality at York University. They talk about spontaneous vs. planned or scheduled sex. Which do you think is more satisfying? And, a woman with fragrance sensitivity has trouble convincing her friends and family to give the stinky cologne a rest. Ask Dan a question! [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Liberator: makers of pillows, shapes and furniture for new exciting sex. Go to Liberator.com/Savage or type “Savage” into the search bar for private VIP access to deals that are too good to announce on this podcast! This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 20% off site wide. Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From abortion to adult babies, polyamory to pegging and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is positively a force for sex positivity.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.
0:05.1	If you're under 18, get out of here, young.
0:08.6	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary,
0:12.3	or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:18.0	while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Monthcast.
0:26.6	ChatGPT will no longer play hard to get.
0:30.0	That was my takeaway from the announcement last week by ChatGPT CEO Sam Altman,
0:34.8	that the biggest AI platform is going to start, quoting Altman here,
0:40.4	treating adult users like adults when the company rolls out an update later this month.
0:45.5	Verified users on ChatGPT5, presumably paying subscribers, are now going to be able to create erotica.
0:54.1	This will come as news to ChatGPT users who are to create erotica. This will come as news to chat GPT users who were
0:57.6	already creating erotica on the platform. It'll be news to them that they couldn't already do that.
1:03.1	People were already creating imaginary partners on chat GPT. Have you seen the My Boyfriend
1:09.6	IsAI subreddit? They're very excited over there, by the way,
1:14.2	about the coming update as the last update ended a lot of beautiful relationships, imaginary
1:18.5	ones, but still beautiful. Anyway, as we discussed on the show a few months ago, I heard from
1:24.6	three friends who nearly abandoned conventional porn in favor of
1:28.3	AI generated erotica. Three makes it a trend. These friends used to make fun of me for preferring
1:34.3	erotica to porn. And all of them, all three, were using chat GPT after it first came out all along
1:42.1	to create hardcore erotica.
1:45.3	But the thing about chat GPT up to now, the model, I guess, that didn't treat adults like
1:50.4	adults, a model that did talk at least one teenager into killing himself, the thing about
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