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Savage Lovecast

After Action Report #1

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 October 2025

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to our first stand-alone After-Action Report! He got in a full body spiderman suit. And then the action began. Hear Dan chat with the man who took cos-play to a whole new level. If YOU recently had a new sexual experience (good or bad,) write it up and send it in to [email protected] with the subject line: After Action Report. Ask Dan a [email protected] 206-302-2064 EVERY TUESDAY: Get more of Dan on Savage Lovecast Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From abortion to adult babies, polyamory to pegging and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is positively a force for sex positivity.

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to our first ever standalone after action report where people who've tried something brand new tell their tale.

0:20.3

For this first one, we've got little guy who had a lot of fun in a Spider-Man suit.

0:25.4

Hey, Lil Guy, how are you?

0:27.1

Thank you for coming on the show.

0:28.6

I'm fine. Thanks. Thanks for having me.

0:30.7

So who are you? Give us the bio. Who is Lil Guy?

0:34.6

Gay guy, married. I've been married for 32 years this year, I think. BDSM sub,

0:41.1

relatively new, about five years going on six. So still learning, still growing? Absolutely.

0:48.0

Old dogs, new tricks, it's possible? Yes. So what is it you did? What's the new, besides getting into BDSM a few years ago, what's the thing that you just

0:57.3

tried, the new experience you just had?

0:59.9

I put on a Lycra Spider-Man suit during, in the context of subdom play session.

1:11.1

Okay, Spider-Man is kind of iconic in some kink scenes and game L kink scenes.

1:17.5

You know, you look at Spider-Man and you think what a great bondage top he would be.

1:23.7

I've seen porn of guys in spidey outfits tied up.

1:28.2

Were you getting tied up in a spidey outfit?

1:30.3

Actually, the dom that put me in this Spider-Man suit put me in it because there was a history with the suit.

1:37.3

A couple of other doms that I had played with had worn the suit.

1:41.3

The idea itself I was really kind of agnostic to, but because of

1:45.0

having had the experience with other people wearing it, I wanted to try it. Okay. So how was it?

1:51.3

And where did you try? Was it just you and this guy one-on-one in his dungeon or where?

1:57.0

Yeah, me and this guy one-on-one in his dungeon. And I put on the suit, which isn't an easy thing to do, actually, because it had fingers and feet and all that kind of stuff.

2:07.1

But once I put the suit on, the sense of strength and the confidence that it imparted was really something else.

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