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Gonna open with something personal and kind of stupid, but deeply satisfying for me.

As it turns out, someone out there is using with extra lobster,

the way I hope people would start using it when I

tried to make with extra lobster happen a few years ago. At the top of last week's show, I mentioned

with extra lobster, along with a couple of other euphemisms that failed to stick, hiking the

Appalachian Trail, lifting my luggage, and Josie Ryan reached out on Instagram to let me know

that the lobsters I ate in Iceland, where I spotted with extra lobster on a menu, those lobsters

did not die in vain. Maybe it didn't catch on more broadly, but me and my partner used with

extra lobster all the time. It's even emojiable.

Josie pointed out, including a couple of lobster emojis. Then Josie promised that she and her

partner will continue to make extra lobster happen. Thank you so much. Josie, your message made my day.

And now what you all probably expected me to talk about at the opening of this

week's show, the Cold Play Couple. A man was caught on the JumboTron during a cold play concert in

Boston with his arms wrapped around a woman. And they freaked out, jumped out of the shot

as soon as they realized they were up there on the Jumbotron, and Chris Martin himself from the stage said into a

microphone that they looked like they were having an affair, which it turns out is precisely what

Andy Byron, the wealthy CEO of a tech company, was doing. His arms were wrapped around his

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