Savage Lovecast Episode 974

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2025

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

A woman in her late 40s is struggling to process a relationship she had when she was in college. She slept with a former professor of hers but then got rejected by him. After she moved away, she arranged a visit with him, and got rejected again. Now, over 20 years later, she's wondering if his actions were unethical or inappropriate. We've gotten some tricky parenting questions in the past, but this one is extra-special. The caller is a new mother, and the 24/7 dom in a clothed female/naked male relationship. She treats her service sub roughly and her pet name for him is "slut." It's all well and good while the child is an infant, but how can they maintain their relationship style when the kid is older and asking questions like "Why isn't daddy allowed to sit on the furniture?" Dan brings on Lina Dune from the Ask A Sub podcast to advise. On the Magnum, welcome to the world of competitive masturbation. Meet Colby Jaxxx, a professional gooner content creator and winner of the second season of The Great BateWorld BateOff™! Dan and Colby talk about this niche gig, poppers in gooning culture, the unique challenges when gooners date each other, and the presence of "girlie gooners." And, a polite gay man endowed with a high volume of come wonders if he should warn his lovers that they are about to be blasted. Or should it be a big surprise? [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Blueland. Going eco has never been easier. Revolutionary, refillable cleaning essentials eliminating single-use plastic. Right now, through July 7th, shop Blueland’s July 4th Sale and get up to 25% off! After that, you still get 15% off your first order by going to Blueland.com/Savage This episode is sponsored by the iRestore Professional, for regrowing hair using light therapy. For a limited time, get a HUGE discount on the iRestore Professional when you use code Savage at iRestore.com Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From 24/7 Dom/sub relationships to abstinence, gooning to ghosting and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.
0:05.1	If you're under 18, get out of here, young and...
0:08.0	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary,
0:12.4	or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:18.1	while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:26.6	Did you just take a dick pick or a tit pick or a whole pick?
0:30.7	One of those picks you wouldn't want your mother to see or your employer?
0:35.1	Before you send it to someone you feel or you hope you can trust,
0:39.5	there's something you need to know if you're in Vancouver or Camloops or Victoria or
0:45.3	Colonna. If you're somewhere in beautiful British Columbia, there's something you need to know
0:50.0	before you hit send on that dick or tit or hole pick. But first, it was a bad week for big
0:57.4	rulings. Here's the NPR headline. The Supreme Court gives Trump a wave of victories in a
1:02.2	blockbuster final week. The court-okate attacks on birthright citizenship, allowed states to
1:07.6	defund plant parenthood, approved Texas instituting age verification requirements to view porn sites,
1:13.7	and gave parents the right to opt kids out of schoolwork that conflicts with the parents' religious beliefs.
1:20.3	So no Darwin, no geology.
1:22.5	We can't be talking about rocks that are older than 6,000 years.
1:25.7	And of course, in the issue in this case, no books that
1:28.6	mention the existence of gays and lesbians and bisexuals and trans people. But there was one silver
1:35.9	lining in the dark fucking cloud of Supreme Court rulings last week. The court upheld a key
1:42.1	provision in the Affordable Care Act, aka ObamaCare, that requires
1:46.4	insurers, private insurers, employee insurance programs to cover preventative care,
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