You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. It's Tuesday, November 7th, Election Day, which means tonight we're going to find out

whether performing sex acts for money on the internet with your husband is a disqualifier

for public office, at least in the eyes of voters in Virginia's 57th district,

where nurse practitioner, Susanna Gibson, secured the Democratic nomination in an important

swing seat in a race for the Virginia House of Delegates in a closely divided state, and then was

outed as an amateur porn star by a Republican operative who sent the live sex tapes Gibson made with her

husband on chatterbait to the Washington Post. Chatterbate, the number one website for chatty masturbators

everywhere. Like I said, when the Gibson story first broke, I want to live in a world where what

happens on the internet stays on the internet. I want to live in a world where people meet and flirt and swap picks and videos and

fuck online and can even have fun, sexy adventures with their spouses online.

And that part of their life, their online life, their online sex life, is regarded as private.

So long as no one forces anyone to watch their videos or look at

their dick pics, no one would be penalized for their online kind of private, but sort of kind of

public. It really depends on the context, behavior. We half live in the world I want to live in already.

People meet and flirt, swap picks and videos and fuck online and have sexy adventures with their spouses.

But right now, we all do it at great personal and professional risk.

And this strikes me as untenable.

If for no other reason, then most of us, almost all of us, have some dirty shit out there on the internet.

If not photos and videos, then those

digital breadcrumbs, likes, favorites, saves, cookies, browser histories. And even if you've

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