Savage Lovecast Episode 869

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 13 June 2023

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

They are a butch, gender-queer AFAB, kinky pervert. As such, they love going to sex parties. Their boyfriend meanwhile, is straight, vanilla and family oriented. Their relationship is open, and he’s found a lass he wants to bone down with. But the caller doesn’t want him to! It’s a complicated situation, and Dan is here to help. Next up, Dan chats with a caller whose new dom demands that she shave off all her body hair for an erotic “inspection.” But she’s a feminist and has issues with this request. Should she do it? Did she do it? Hear their convo and find out. On the Magnum, have you heard of “compersion?” Our spell check program sure hasn’t! It comes to us straight from poly-land. It’s “the positive emotion one feels when one sees their partner with another person.” Our guest this week is Dr. Marie Thouin, an expert on the concept. She and Dan discuss how compersion and jealousy can coexist, how it differs from cuckolding, and how long until San Fransisco is one giant polycule? Finally, a woman is in the 3rd trimester of her pregnancy and the sex is getting weird. What changes can they make to improve their sex life? Oh honey. You have no idea. Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by the Meridian Trimmer, the very best tool to trim your body hair. Go to MeridianGrooming.com and use the code SAVAGE for an exclusive 15% off. This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.
0:04.9	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:14.5	while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. We've gotten good news during Pride Month before.
0:25.4	The Supreme Court handed down their decision in Lawrence v. Texas in June of 2003.
0:31.8	That decision legalized sodomy between consenting adults, including straight ones.
0:35.8	Obergefell, that decision handed down in June of 2015,
0:39.2	which legalized gay marriage.
0:41.9	But Pat Robertson dying and Donald Trump getting indicted during Pride Month?
0:48.7	It's not legalizing butt sex or gay marriage, but we'll take it.
0:53.4	I don't have to explain who Trump is to my younger
0:55.5	listeners. He's been traumatizing you for the last seven years. But younger listeners, listeners,
1:00.0	listeners under 40, may have no idea who Pat Robertson was. But if you're over 40,
1:06.7	Pat Robertson was a towering and terrifyingly powerful figure on the religious right,
1:11.8	founder of the Christian Broadcasting Network, creator and host of the 700 Club,
1:16.7	a daily television program that was seeping hate and fear into people's living rooms
1:21.1	decades before Fox News opened the floodgates, founder of the Christian Coalition,
1:25.5	and briefly in 1988, a scarily credible
1:29.3	candidate for the Republican presidential nomination.
1:32.5	Robertson raked in hundreds of millions of dollars, stoking fear and hatred of gays and
1:36.2	lesbians in the 70s, 80s, and 90s.
1:39.3	He celebrated the deaths of gay men from AIDS.
1:41.5	He infamously said, God is weeding his garden about AIDS when it was
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