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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 859

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 4 April 2023

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever been to a terribly complicated orgy? This one promises to be epic. Hear about the game they invented called “Spin the Bottom.” A trans woman has started feeling claustrophobic when she goes down on either her male or female partner. Oral is her favorite! What gives? On the Magnum and the Micro, Dan welcomes professor and sex researcher Dr. Lori Botto to talk about the nature of asexuality. Is it mutable? Can you be in a relationship if you’re ace? On the Magnum, Mistress Matisse is back to help answer some general sex worker questions: a woman is planning a three-way with a sex worker. Should she warn the sex worker that she’s a big ole squirter? A man with sex work in his past isn’t sure how to roll this history out to potential partners. And, how can you achieve poppin’ nips like the strippers have? Matisse handles it all with eloquence and grace. [email protected] 206-302-2064 Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting ForiaWellness.com/Savage This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get $20% off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Love cast at Savage.loaf.

0:23.2

I'm going to resist the urge to enter the diaper discourse.

0:26.8

It's not an overwhelming urge, easier resisted than some of my other urges.

0:30.8

And if you don't know what I'm talking about here, if you don't get the reference, consider

0:34.6

yourself lucky. The diaper blowup, the diaper blowout is just one of the things that happened

0:40.8

in the last week that I could talk about today. And in our current news and culture climate,

0:45.2

really a week is an eternity, just since last Monday. Trump was indicted, final fuckingly.

0:51.7

God bless you, Stormy Daniels, The New York Times, lost its blue check on Twitter,

0:56.7

what the fuck you learn, Musk. And Bud Light has brought out a new line of pride, Bud Light,

1:03.8

cans in April for reasons, lots to talk about, lots of very recent events, hyper recent

1:11.6

events, but I'm not quite ready to move on from what happened last Monday.

1:16.0

The mass shooting at the Private Christian Grade School in Nashville were three nine-year-olds

1:20.0

and three adults were murdered by Alunatic, armed with an AR-15, the mass shooter's weapon of choice.

1:27.3

The shooter, who was killed at the scene by the police, appears to have been a trans man.

1:32.3

Now there is no epidemic of trans mass shooters out there. There's just this one, little perspective.

1:38.1

There have been 130 mass shootings in the United States in 2023, according to The New York Times.

1:43.7

So far, that's more than one mass shooting per day. The overwhelming majority of those

1:49.8

mass shootings were perpetrated by cis-gender men with guns. So if anything, trans people,

1:56.2

as a proportion of the population, are less of a danger, less of a threat, less likely to shoot up

2:02.4

school or a church or a synagogue or movie theater, then cis-gender males even after Nashville.

2:10.1

Now, anyone who had walked into a school and killed children is not sane. I'm off for

2:14.9

keeping guns out of the hands of the not sane, and since we don't often find out that someone

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