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Most weeks when I sit down and record the intro to the podcast, I wind up talking about something that's just not

right. Something that doesn't sit right with me, something that's not right in the world. But I

woke up today to record the intro for today's podcast and it just felt like everything was right,

right? For me personally, right in the world, nothing going wrong, everything looking up. And so

yeah, decided to keep this intro short because there's nothing for me to complain about. I really

can't complain. Now most weeks I say I can't complain and then I prove that I can because I do,

but this week, nothing to complain about. So you know what? I'm just going to go grab Nancy and we're

going to take some calls together because it's been too long since Nancy's been on the show. I love

having Nancy on the show. That's one way things can keep going right for me today. So Nancy joins me.

That's coming up on today's Savage Love Cast.

Hey Dan, I'm a 34 year old female and I have a friend who's 34 and dating a 36 year old woman.

She recently decided to get a fertility test and it was determined that if she needs to have

kids, it has to happen right now. I guess, you know, situation's pretty dire. So he's considering it.

Now they've only been dating for two months. They've never gone on a weekend trip. They've never

even spent the night at another person's house or at each other's house or anywhere else together

for that matter. Now I think this might be rushing it when it comes to kids. I mean, I wouldn't advise

marrying somebody that short of time. I mean, me and my partner did move in together, you know,

within three months, but you know, it's not scrambling your DNA as you're saying. I'm just wondering,

am I a bit mean or harsh and saying me to slow down, maybe think about this a little bit more?

I mean, I understand if, you know, for her time is of the essence, but I just don't want to see

a good guy in a bad situation. Do you have any advice I could give to him?

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