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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 841

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 6 December 2022

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

A 32 year-old man had a cold sore once when he was 15. Does he now have to disclose this every time he goes in for a kiss?  As a man’s 20 year marriage was ending, he had an affair with an old friend. They were together for 2 1/2 years after the marriage ended. To this day his kids won’t forgive him for this. How can he win them back?  On the Magnum, Dan brings back our resident STI expert, Dr. Ina Park, to discuss warts that just won’t quit, telling the jerk you slept with that you have some gonorrhea, and, how to prevent recurring unitary tract infections after anal sex. Enjoy!  And, a woman broke up with her boyfriend of 8 months. He just couldn’t commit to her, saying she was…”too confident,” and his mother agrees. (It’s genetic!) Her question is whether these hurtful words should end any friendship after the breakup or should she keep him in her life? Dan’s answer may…NOT surprise you. Q@savage.love     206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. Today’s Lovecast is brought to you by MeUndies.com: High quality, super-comfortable, good looking undies. Get 15% off your first order when you go to MeUndies.com/Savage. This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter “Savage” for postage, a digital scale, and a 4 week trial.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.

0:04.1

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.0

while there's nothing you can't pass on the Savage Lovecast.

0:23.1

Hey everybody, I sound terrible because I feel terrible.

0:26.7

I am sick.

0:28.5

You can probably tell from the sound of my voice.

0:30.9

So I'm going to try to keep things short here at the top because you don't want to listen

0:34.2

to me in this condition.

0:36.4

And thanks to the cold meds and sleepless nights

0:38.3

and hacking and coughing, things are going to be pretty scattered in this week's intro. First up,

0:43.8

The White Lotus. This is only going to make sense to people who are watching the second season

0:48.3

of Mike White's genius anthology show set at an upscale resort this time in Sicily. If you don't

0:53.9

know what the White Lotus is,

0:55.8

it's basically the World Cup for people who don't care about sports. And the World Cup, of course,

1:01.1

is sports for people who don't care about human rights. Anyway, to the White Lotus fans out there,

1:06.7

Ethan loves Harper, but he doesn't want her. But the minute Ethan thinks his old college friend Cameron, who Ethan has recently

1:13.9

lapped professionally, but Ethan still holds onto some bitterness about having been lapped

1:18.6

by Cameron romantically at frat parties a dozen years ago when they were still in college

1:23.4

together, the minute Ethan thinks Cameron might want to fuck his wife Harper, or maybe did

1:28.9

fuck his wife Harper, Ethan suddenly wants his wife again in the worst way. But instead of

1:35.0

recognizing that Cameron may have done him a favor, Ethan is furious. By contrast, Cameron and his

1:41.9

wife, Daphne, they joke with each other about cheating on each other.

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