Savage Lovecast Episode 828

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 6 September 2022

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

A straight man in his 40s can only come if his lady is so, so, very wet. Is this a kink? Also, as he and his partners are aging, the likelihood of his finding a woman who can accommodate him diminishes. What can he do to ensure middle aged orgasms for all? A man’s husband has a lush, silky beard. Other men just need to touch it! The caller hates this, and wishes they would leave his husband’s pretty chin alone. How can he learn to politely rebuff their advances? On the Magnum, a woman struggles with sex when her boyfriend initiates. Past trauma gets in the way of her enjoyment. Dan brings on Rena Martine, a women’s intimacy coach, and former sex crimes prosecutor to talk about ways of breaking the bad associations between sex and fear. She also advocates for BDSM as a healing modality. Finally, a gay man just joined a new gym, and finds he’s got some exhibitionist tendencies. But he wants to make sure he’s being a good gym citizen. What is the etiquette amongst the sweaty brotherhood? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $100 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com and use the offer code Savage. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.
0:05.0	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:14.4	while there's nothing you can't ask on the savage lovecast.
0:23.1	I'm concerned for my listeners in Michigan.
0:26.2	It's not just the state's ratio of right-wing mag and nut jobs to reasonable human
0:30.0	beings that has me worried for all my listeners in Michigan and other states and the
0:34.0	United States.
0:35.1	And it's not just the two Republicans on Michigan's obscure board of canvassers that have
0:39.6	me worried.
0:40.8	A quick digression.
0:42.1	Those two Republican appointees to that board last week blocked an abortion rights
0:46.5	amendment to the state constitution from appearing on the ballot this November in Michigan
0:51.0	for absolutely absurd reasons.
0:55.9	Something about a typo in the text of the measure, a couple of words being too close together. But what these two Republican fox are really
1:00.9	worried about, what Republican Fox all over the country are worried about right now, is another state
1:05.3	doing what Kansas just did. Voters in Kansas, as you may recall, overwhelmingly came down in favor of abortion rights,
1:12.6	and voters are going to do the same in other states, red states and purple states as soon as they
1:17.6	have a chance. More than 750,000 eligible voters in Michigan signed petitions to get the amendment
1:24.7	onto the ballot this November, close to double the number of
1:28.8	signatures required. So yeah, that thing is going to pass if and when it makes it onto the ballot
1:34.3	in Michigan. And it still might make it under the ballot this November. A lawsuit has already been
1:40.0	filed. What I'm concerned about today right now is a 1931 law that came back into effect in
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