Savage Lovecast Episode 826

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 23 August 2022

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

A tantric tease gave his buddy a long, erotic, boner-ifying massage which the caller describes as the best non-penetrative sex he has had…ever. But the dude is in a monogamous relationship, and because there was no penetration, never considered it cheating. Now the caller is panting with lust and wants more. A woman’s friend was dating a guy who claimed to be a recovering sex addict. But the caller discovered that he was concurrently dating another woman, telling both of them that they were his one and only. Having learned this, the friend is not quite ready to DTMFA. How can the caller help to get her there? On the Magnum, Dan politely spars with Katherine Dee, an internet writer who has been following some key players in the “sex negativity movement.” How can we reconcile the promises of the sexual revolution with rising reports of female dissatisfaction? And here’s something you’ve never heard on the Lovecast: “There’s something wrong with you if you’re into bondage.” Somehow, Dan keeps his cool. And, a bi woman with a boyfriend negotiated an open relationship. She started dating a woman. But when he started sexting with a woman himself, she realized she wasn’t quite ready for non-monogamy after all. You ready? You sure? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE. This episode is brought to you by Doordash. Get breakfast, lunch, dinner and more delivered from your favorite restaurants right to your doorstep with one easy click. To get 50% off your first order of up to $15 value, use promo code SAVAGE at checkout when you spend $12 or more. Terms apply.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.
0:04.9	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:14.5	while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:22.6	I did not think it could be done, not with satellite technology, not with night vision
0:28.2	goggles, not with genetic testing.
0:30.8	I did not think it was possible to locate a group of people for whom I could feel more
0:37.0	contempt and less sympathy than I did
0:40.1	for anti-vaxxers who got COVID and died or never-never Trumpers who looked at January 6th and thought,
0:47.1	let's have four more years of that. Or people who sit next to me on airplanes and try to
0:52.2	strike up conversations. Actually, in all honesty, I do feel some small degree of sympathy for people who sit next to me on airplanes and try to strike up conversations. Actually, in all
0:55.5	honesty, I do feel some small degree of sympathy for people who get stuck sitting next to me on
0:59.4	airplanes, but dead anti-vaxxers, live never-never-trumper's, only contempt, no sympathy. But
1:07.9	Hemet Mettah might have done it. He found a group of people that I could and did, at least for a
1:13.9	minute, hold in more contempt and feel less sympathy for than dead anti-vaxxers or live
1:22.2	never-never-trumper's. I don't check in often on religion news service, America's leading provider of news about
1:29.4	faith since 1934, but Meta, aka the friendly atheist, he does. He reads Religion News
1:35.8	Service, so I don't have to. And earlier this month on Only Sky, a secular humanist news site I do
1:41.1	read, Meta highlighted a piece by Riley Farrell at R&S about evangelical
1:46.3	Christian furries who are afraid of being outed, not to their evangelical Christian friends
1:55.2	as furries, but to their furry friends as anti-gay evangelical Christians. Riley writes at R&S,
2:04.4	Christian Furry is interviewed for this story, including leaders of the group that calls itself
2:08.9	the Christian Furry Fellowship, asked to be anonymous, fearing, quote, doxing from within the
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