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Savage Lovecast Episode 818

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 28 June 2022

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

A gay Irishman had a terribly unpleasant experience, when the man he was screwing twerked and gyrated until it felt like his dick was about to fall off. Is this a thing that’s happening? Or only on the Emerald Isle?  A singer is worried that rough oral sex could harm her vocal cords. But she shouldn’t worry because Dan somehow roped in Jamie Barton, a very delightful mezzo-soprano opera singer to offer her professional reassurance.  On the Magnum, Dan chats with former ugly duckling, current total hottie comedian David Drake. They talk about mining your personal life for comedic material, and whether getting jacked at a massage parlor constitutes cheating. Fun! And, a caller is convinced that some bad actors are hiding behind the poly label to justify cheating. Is she right? She just might be right! (She’s right.) Q@Savage.Love      206-302-2064 There are 2 more days to take advantage of our half off sale for new subscribers to the Magnum. Go to Savage.Love and enter the promo code: SavagePride 2022 This episode is brought to you by Hung Up-an original podcast about sex love and relationships, from Headspace hosted by Shan Boodram. Search for Hung Up in your podcast player. This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage.  This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.

0:05.0

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.4

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:23.0

In 1986, in Bowers v. Hardwick, the Supreme Court upheld state anti-sodomy laws.

0:29.7

Supreme Court ruled that there was no constitutional right to engage in homosexual acts,

0:34.7

and that states could ban gay sex and arrest gay men.

0:39.3

The details, the actual case is infuriating.

0:42.3

A bigoted Atlanta cop with a personal beef against a gay bartender went to that bartender's

0:46.9

apartment to serve an invalid warrant and walked into that guy's bedroom where he was having

0:53.1

sex with his boyfriend at the time.

0:54.5

He arrested them both on the spot for violating Georgia's anti-sodomies statute.

1:00.6

The Bauer's decision said that that cop had every right to do so, that gay men did not have a

1:06.0

right to privacy, that Georgia had every right to throw gay men in prison for having sex with each other.

1:13.2

Prison, where, as David Letterman joked on the night, the Bauer's decision came down, prison,

1:17.6

where no one ever has gay sex. I had to wait a whole day to read the actual decision.

1:23.2

It was 1986, so it wasn't online right away because there was no online.

1:29.0

I was at a rehearsal the next day, and rehearsal came to a stop when someone carried in a pile of newspapers.

1:35.7

The New York Times published the decision in full. The room went silent, as everyone read.

1:42.5

Some of us wept. All of us were furious. We were being told by the Supreme

1:48.2

Court, by our own government, again, that our bodies weren't our own, that we couldn't make

1:53.9

our own choices about our own bodies, that we remained second-class citizens. It was devastating.

2:03.3

Last week, devastating news from that same court.

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