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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 808

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 19 April 2022

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Mazel tov, you’re a new daddy! And by “daddy” we mean a queer, dirty-talkin’, older dom. A newly single bi man in his 40s suddenly finds himself with a bevy of young men who want him to play this role, and he doesn’t know where to begin.  More semen please! A man wants to know if the various foods and supplements that promise to increase semen volume really work.  On the Magnum, you should have seen the Tech-Savvy At-Risk Youth™ scurry around when we found out that Anna Sale was coming on the show. The host of Death, Sex & Money has a new podcast all about erectile dysfunction called HARD, so Dan chatted with her about ED and Viagra and much more. Unsurprisingly, Anna Sale was a delight.  And, can cis people use the term “dead-naming?” The caller saw a YouTuber complaining that some people in a bar had called out the name they read from his driver’s license. He now uses his slick YouTube handle and accused the bartender of “dead-naming” him. But isn’t this term specifically for people who use a trans person’s former name? People! Words Matter.  voicemail@savagelovecast.com 206-302-2064  This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at Savage. Love.

0:05.0

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.4

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. Last week's intro to the podcast

0:20.9

Last week's intro to the podcast was kind of heavy and it was kind of long.

0:27.5

So I'm going to try to keep it light and try to keep it short this week.

0:31.5

But first, yeah, something heavy that I didn't get to last week is weighing on me and I want

0:37.3

to talk about it.

0:38.3

So forgive me.

0:39.4

In Texas, we got a taste of our post-Rove future.

0:43.8

A woman, Lizelle Herrera, arrested after performing a self-induced abortion.

0:49.7

Details are sketchy.

0:50.9

They're sketchy still a couple of weeks later.

0:53.3

But Herrera was charged with murder

0:55.1

taken to jail and held on a $500,000 bond. The charges were dropped because she hadn't actually

1:03.3

broken any laws. It was reported that the ER staff called the sheriff after Herrera

1:08.5

showed up at the hospital and told them she had self-induced

1:12.1

an abortion. The sheriff apparently arrested Herrera because he felt like it. Dr. Jen Gunter,

1:20.1

author of the Vigina Bible, frequent guest on the Lovecast, wrote a long post out on Vigenda,

1:25.7

advising women in red states who might be self-inducing

1:28.2

abortions more often these days, self-inducing with medications that are safe and legal in blue

1:33.6

states, but only safe in red states, not legal. Dr. Gunter wrote a long post advising women

1:39.7

that emergency room physicians can't tell the difference between a miscarriage and a self-induced abortion.

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