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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 799

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 15 February 2022

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Hoo boy do we have a goodie for you today.  First off, a woman and her boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. They stay home, watch tv, play videos games and don’t have sex. When one of them tries to initiate, they both feel too silly to get in the mood. How can they get their mojo back?  Our guests are Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson from the Guys We F****d podcast. Why we haven’t had them on the show sooner is a mystery to everyone. Dan and the ladies gab about dating younger guys, dating sexual prudes, getting laid when you aren’t so pretty, how we all have daddy issues, cuckolding and so much more. A bit of it is on the Micro and the whole sordid thing is on the Magnum.  And, how you teach your man to clean his ass properly?  voicemail@savagelovecast.com. 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $100 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com and use the offer code Savage. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.

0:05.0

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.4

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:22.8

Back in the bad old days, they used to throw gaming and lesbians and other queer people

0:27.4

out of the army and out of the State Department and the Department of the Interior and the

0:31.8

Department of Energy and every other department because we were a security risk.

0:36.5

And we were a security risk because we could be

0:38.9

blackmailed. And we could be blackmailed for being gay or queer because we could be fired

0:44.1

for being gay or queer, which made us a blackmailable security risk that needed to be

0:48.9

fired. The logic here can really make your head hurt if you think about it, which no one did for decades

0:55.4

except the victims of this discriminatory logic.

0:58.9

Logic that went like this.

1:00.0

You can't serve in the military because you're a security risk and you're a security risk

1:03.0

because you can't serve in the military.

1:05.6

And the same went for the Department of State and defense and energy.

1:09.6

Anyway, I was thinking about the battle days,

1:12.8

the lavender scare in the 1950s and the 1960s when gay men and lesbians were thought to be

1:18.3

communists or assumed to be communists and purged from federal agencies, which went on from

1:23.2

actually the 50s or the 1980s, and then the ban on gays and lesbians serving in the military before

1:28.0

1994, and don't ask, don't tell, the law of the land banning gays and lesbians from serving in

1:33.7

the military from 1994 to 2011. All that led to anti-gay witch hunts on military bases, careers

1:40.2

were ruined, lives were ruined, but in some cases activists were created.

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