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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 784

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 2 November 2021

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

A woman in an open relationship with her bi husband, will sometimes indulge in threeways with men. But these men almost always ask to film the fun. Isn't this just asking for free porn? It makes the caller feel like an unpaid sex worker.  A trans man wants to start hooking up with men. But he remembers how dangerous and fraught this was before he transitioned, and wants to make sure he's safe and in control this time. Dan calls him up and you get to listen in. On the Magnum, Dan brings back STI researcher Ina Park, to talk about STI risks, stigmas and how to protect yourself.  And, in this installment of "What's My Label?" a neurodivergent, spanko, straight man wonders what to call himself.  This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. The Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Dame Products: a woman-founded sex toy company. Visit DameProducts.com/Savage to get 10% off your first order. This episode of the Savage Lovecast is sponsored by OMGyes.com: a website dedicated to getting scientific truths out about women’s sexual pleasure. Savage Lovecast listeners can get a discount if they go to OMGYES.com/Savage.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at Savage. Love.

0:04.9

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.5

while there's nothing you can't last on the Savage Lovecast. I've had sex at work.

0:24.6

Sex in the workplace or workplaces, plural.

0:29.1

Never with a co-worker, though, not that I recall.

0:31.5

So hopefully no potentially exploitable power imbalances to talk about here.

0:35.7

The guys I had sex with at work were all boyfriends

0:39.3

or fuck buddies, one eventually became my husband. So not employees or other employees, but guys

0:45.6

who swung by the places where I was employed. First time was with this crazy hot guy at

0:52.4

four star fiction and video in Madison, Wisconsin, where I was

0:55.0

the night manager.

0:55.8

He would drop by when I was closing up the place, which I did alone.

1:00.3

And yeah, there wasn't an aisle or a counter or a bathroom or a store room or a break room

1:07.0

that we didn't violate together.

1:09.7

I don't know Roger is a listener, but just in case,

1:11.8

Hey, Roger, those were good times. Great memories. Thank you. Anyway, I was thinking about all

1:16.5

the times I had sex at work when I read about the trouble this guy named Marty Clark got himself

1:21.9

into, in part because he wanted to have sex with somebody at work. You see, this guy, Marty Clark and his wife, they're Swingers.

1:30.7

And they had an ad up on a website for swinging couples called Club 4Play.

1:35.2

And like everybody on hookup apps and Swingers' websites,

1:37.9

the Clarks were swapping nudes with people they might want to play with.

1:42.3

Mr. Clark even shared some of his dick picks with people

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