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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 782

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 19 October 2021

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Our opening "Sexcess" story features a woman who discovered she's natural born pegger. After some initial reticence, now her man begs for it.  A gay man has a fraught relationship with his parents. He visits them, but they don't visit him. He learned recently that he has Aspergers Syndrome, and also that his family thinks he's an asshole. So, with his newly understood diagnosis, does he owe them an apology? Or are his parents the assholes here?  On the Magnum, Dan interviews one of our favorite guests, Dr. Justin Lehmiller about how sexual behaviors have changed during the pandemic. Covid's silver lining? Americans are trying butt stuff! And, after a blindfolded anonymous scene from an app hook-up, the caller realized that he recognized his lover as an acquaintance. Now what? Should he tell him? 206-302-2064  voicemail@savagelovecast.com This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Pill Club: the birth control subscription that is delivered right to your door. Get a special care package with your first delivery. Go to www.thepillclub.com/Savage. This episode is brought to you by Allform- premium, customizable sofas and chairs shipped right to your door. For 20% off your perfect sofa, go to Allform.com/Savage.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at Savage. Love.

0:04.9

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.4

while there's nothing you can't pass on the Savage Lovecast. If I were the conspiracy-minded type, if I was the kind of person who would treat the common cold with mercury or leeches or bleeding because someone I worked with once at a coldstone creamery in high school posted something on Facebook about these

0:38.4

miracle cures. And I do have a cold right now. Colds. Remember colds? I left the house for what

0:43.5

felt like the first time in two years and promptly got a cold. A cold I am treating with

0:48.6

dequeville and tea and toast and television, not ivermectin or bleeding or leeches.

0:53.9

Anyway, if I were the conspiracy-minded type, I would think there was some secret

0:59.1

coded message buried in a story the Washington Post published last week by Josh Dossy

1:05.1

and Michael Sherr.

1:05.9

It's a really long-ass piece about how Trump has demanded that everyone in the GOP embrace the big lie and about how

1:15.3

everyone in the GOP has embraced the big lie. That lie being that the 2020 election was stolen.

1:22.5

The big lie is a classic GOP move, a GOP move that predates Trump's political career by decades.

1:30.0

Accus your opponent of what you're guilty of.

1:33.2

Or in Trump's case, accuse your opponent of the crime you attempted to commit yourself.

1:37.7

From accusing Democrats of being elitist while heaping tax cuts on billionaires to Trump,

1:42.5

accusing Dems of stealing the election.

1:44.8

He tried and failed to steal as he gears up to try to steal the 2024 election.

1:50.6

Accusing your opponents of your crimes.

1:52.6

That's what Republicans do.

1:55.2

And Democrats?

1:56.4

What do they do?

1:57.6

Fucking Democrats, they stand around in Washington doing nothing for fear that any move

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