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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 772

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 10 August 2021

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

A woman is sick of being a dirty little secret. Her boyfriend's ex-partner would withhold access to the kids if she found out about the relationship. Can she demand that he tell his ex? A woman fantasizes that she's a gay man when she's having sex. But the rest of the time, she feels like a cis woman. Dan issues a label for her and sends her on her way. On the Magnum, a comedian is creeped out that her ex-boyfriend might come heckle her at her stand-up shows. Dan welcomes comedian Jen Kirkman to talk about dealing with this unpleasantness. And, a bi man is in a long distance relationship with an older man. But he is coming to grips with the fact that he has an unhealthy sex compulsion, and has been taking dangerous risks. Should he break off the healthy relationship with his partner while he works through recovery?

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.2

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Mubcast.

0:24.8

Well, this seems bad.

0:27.6

Apple announced last week that they're going to be installing new software on iPhones and other Apple devices,

0:33.3

installing it on new devices before they're sold,

0:35.8

and remotely installing it on existing ones,

0:38.5

including the phone in your pocket right now.

0:41.9

And this new software is going to scan the photos stored on your iPhone or ICloud for known

0:48.1

and registered images of child porn.

0:50.8

And quoting the Washington Post here, the new software will also, quote, scan messages sent using Apple's eye message service

0:58.6

for texts and photos that are inappropriate for minors.

1:02.7

You can still send text messages that are inappropriate for minors,

1:06.1

but if you send a photo or text deemed sexually explicit to a minor,

1:14.1

it will be blurred. And the minor will have to click on it to unblur it, but first they'll be warned that their parents are going to be notified

1:18.1

if they click on it. The story at the post continues, Apple's move raises new questions about the

1:24.9

nature of smartphones and who really owns the computers in our pockets

1:28.6

because the new software will perform scans on its users' devices without their knowledge or explicit

1:34.8

consent. Okay, this is when people jump up and say, hey, if you're not doing anything wrong,

1:42.5

if you don't have anything to hide, you don't

1:44.5

have anything to worry about. And Apple wants us to know that there's only a one in a trillion

1:50.1

chance of a person being incorrectly flagged, incorrectly accused of making or distributing child

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