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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode #771

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 3 August 2021

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Our opening "sexcess" story will make all the licensed massage therapists cringe. We are truly sorry. A woman and her girlfriend have gotten in the habit of using baby voices with each other. They know this is terrible, but they can't stop. Dan! Make them stop! On the Magnum, Dan continues crushing out on dominatrixes. This week, he interviews Goddess Charlotte Lashes about financial domination, kinky conservatives, and boyfriends who are being dominated by their mothers. Goddess Charlotte COMMANDS YOU TO LISTEN. A bisexual woman is very attracted to penises. She likes everything about cis women except their vaginas. And she's attracted to trans folks...but only if they have a dick. So, is this wrong? When she's on a date, how and when should she ask what they have down below? 206-302-2064 voicemail@savagelovecast.com

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.7

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.3

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. I couldn't be proud.

0:23.4

On the Savage Lovecast.

0:26.6

I couldn't be prouder.

0:31.7

I was quoted in the Sunday Times this weekend, big newspaper in the UK, in Sarah Didham's piece about a maintenance sex scandal they're having over there.

0:35.2

Caprice Bray, never heard of her.

0:37.4

She's an American model, lives in the UK, famous over there, I guess. Caprice Bray, never heard of her. She's an American model,

0:38.4

lives in the UK, famous over there, I guess. Caprice told OK Magazine that a woman should never

0:43.8

say no to sex with her man. You can't say I'm tired or I have a headache. No, girls, my advice,

0:50.5

even if you aren't in the mood, because it's been a long day, it's just 10 minutes of

0:54.4

your life, ha ha, or 15. First things first, you can say I'm tired or I have a headache or I'm not

1:02.5

in the mood, but everyone, everyone in an LTR is going to have a little maintenance sex now and

1:08.3

then. Sex when you're not in the mood for sex,

1:11.1

but your partner is. No one should ever have sex when they don't want to, of course, but sometimes

1:17.0

we want to have sex for reasons other than wanting to have sex ourselves. Sometimes we want to

1:23.4

have sex to take care of a partner who is in the mood for sex. It's still wanted sex.

1:28.4

It's just not sex we wanted for sex's sake.

1:31.8

Sarah did him talk to me at length and along with my other thoughts about maintenance

1:35.4

sex.

1:36.4

The Sunday Times quoted me telling straight people to broaden their definition of sex.

1:41.5

Standard advice around here.

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