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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 1017

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2026

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

A trans woman enjoys chastity play. But most cock cages use the testicles to keep the device in place. She had an orchiectomy for her gender affirming care, so what is she to do? A gay man has a pattern of losing attraction to the people he's seeing. The instant they break up he gets hot for them again. And now, it's happening with his husband. On the Magnum Dan chats with super bad-ass journalist, lawyer and author Jill Filipovic about the horrifying "Rape Academy" and how feminism is on the ropes right now. She is also our guest on Sex Politics this week. Join us for a deep dive into what women are up against. She and her husband went to an orgy with friends for her husband's birthday. But you know what nobody gave him? An orgasm. I mean, it's an ORGY and his BIRTHDAY. Put it together people! Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 27% off site wide. Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now.  This episode is brought to you by Blueland. Going eco has never been easier. Revolutionary, refillable cleaning essentials eliminating single-use plastic. Right now,  get 15% off your first order by going to Blueland.com/Savage Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From cock cages, to closet cases, feminism to freysexuality and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.

0:05.1

If you're under 18, get out of here, young un.

0:08.8

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary,

0:12.5

or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:18.2

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:26.6

Kind of a downer intro this week, but we live in Downer Times.

0:30.6

If you like your intro's light, if you come here to escape, you might want to skip ahead to the calls.

0:36.6

So, I feel like a broken record when I say this, but I am going to say it again. Husbands, you might want to skip ahead to the calls. So I feel like a broken record when I say this,

0:39.0

but I am going to say it again. Husbands, you can't leave, pregnancies you can't prevent,

0:44.4

politicians you can't vote out of office. That's the evangelical rights agenda for American

0:49.4

women. That's the GOP's agenda for American women. That is the Manospheres agenda for American women.

0:56.3

Taking them out of order, husbands you can't leave, they want to end no-fault divorce.

1:00.5

Imagine a woman having to get her abusive husband's permission to leave him.

1:04.6

Appalling to imagine, well, the religious right has imagined that scenario, and they love it.

1:10.0

And not just a religious right,

1:12.0

the not-so-religious openly misogynistic manosphere is fapping about a future where women

1:17.7

can't leave their abusive husbands. Most red-pilled guys can't get a woman to date them.

1:23.5

If a woman makes the mistake of marrying one of them, they don't want her to be able to escape.

1:45.5

Politicians, you can't vote out of office. They don't just want to gerrymander their way to safe seats and Republican minority rule, which they're one step closer to, thanks to the Supreme Court gutting the Voting Rights Act last week. We are so close to being Rhodesia with nukes. They also want to repeal the 19th Amendment, the amendment that gave women the right to vote. We know this because they keep telling us.

1:51.3

The New York Times published a piece last month with the chilling headline, The Women Who

1:55.1

Believed that Women Should Lose the Right to Vote. It's an idea the subhead reads that is

2:00.0

catching on with evangelical voters.

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