We all need advice, but it's not always clear who to ask. Even in 2026, sometimes even I don't

know where to go for advice, which is why I recommend checking out how to, the longstanding

advice show, and 2026 Amby Award nominated Best Personal Growth podcast. It's hosted by my friend

and award-winning journalist Mike Peska. You might be familiar

with Mike's work on the just-the-longest running daily news podcast. Each week on how-to,

Mike tackles a listener question, including one of mine, ranging from mental health and finance

to relationships and beyond. And he gets help from world-class experts who actually know what they're talking about.

Think of it as eavesdropping on someone else's therapy session without the co-pay or the awkward silence or the stairs.

No question is too big or too specific.

I was happy again to appear in a recent episode of How To focused on the topic of how to emigrate as a thruple.

How To is a great companion to our show and you will learn something new listening to How To.

I always learn something new every time I listen to Mike.

So follow How To with Mike Peska on Apple Podcast, Spotify Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts, and let

them know the Lovecast send you.

You're listening to The Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for

grownups.

If you're under 18, get out of here, young.

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

while there's nothing you can't ask on the savage lovecast.

Two stupid things and one absolutely tragic thing before we start the show this week.

Stupid thing number one, cruise ships a few years ago, actually a dozen years ago now that I think about it.

A gay cruise line offered me and Terry a free vacation 10 days on a boat with 2,000 other gay men if we would just give a couple of talks,

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