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Welcome to After Action Report where people share cool and amazing stories about new sexual experiences.

This week I spoke with Anne who wanted a pro, needed the help of a pro, needed the skills of a pro,

but didn't think she could find the kind of pro she was looking for in her small town happily

and was wrong, which is why she's here to speak with me. Listen in.

Joining me for this After Action Report, Anne, and welcome to the show.

Thanks, Dan. Thanks for having me. I'm thrilled to talk to you.

Before we get to what it is that you did, what you tried, the new thing.

Tell us a little bit about who you are.

I'm a 38-year-old bisexual woman, a living in a very rural part of the Northeast.

I'm in a happily open marriage, and I'm exploring Kink and BDSM. Okay. Let's talk about open marriages for just a second, because they're

very much part of the cultural conversation at the moment. Was your marriage always open, and if not,

whose idea was it to open it?

It was my idea. My partner and I got married five years ago. And when we got married, we got married under the auspices of we're going to be monogamous.

But if that needs to change, then we're both

going to be open to that conversation. And my partner always knew that I was queer, he's a man,

and always knew that I wanted to have more experiences with women. So a couple years into our marriage, I said, I want to sleep with a woman.

Do you want to have a three way? He was not that into it. And so I said, how do you feel about me

just going and exploring that on my own? And he said, great, and was very supportive. So I've been

dating mostly women and non-binary people for the last

couple years. So what was the new thing that you tried? What did you want to talk with us about today?

I hired a rope top to tie me up professionally. Was it your first bondage experience? It was my first

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